Thank you everyone who commented on my post <3
Thank you everyone who commented on my post <3 - Leminal Space
I deleted my post because - even know I know this is part of why communities like this exist - I always feel hesitant to share personal information. I wanted to add a few more things for clarification: I don’t usually have a curfew but on work nights I never stay out late anyway because I also benefit from sticking to my sleep schedule and evening routine. Secondly: I didn’t mention that my partner doesn’t just get migraines. They’re chronically ill with a condition called vestibular migraines - where migraine attacks can lead to heavy vertigo attacks that can last for weeks. On that particular day a few days ago they had (a) already several potential triggers happening to them, such as sudden change in weather and lack of sleep. And (b) - like I had mentioned - a very exhausting and stressful day ahead of them the next day. So with these things combined they were quite on edge already. We had a long talk yesterday where we both apologized for the things we said and came to a mutual understanding of what happened. We’ve been together for 10 years and they’ve been incredibly supportive of me in many ways. Unfortunately they have specific personal trauma that gets triggered by things I do due to my ADHD that other people would just shrug off but they are working on this - we’re both working on our issues. Again, thank you all so much for your input and support <3