2 of the 5 folks arrested at the protest last night are still in there and they both have medical needs, we need to get them out!

call 6123485112, press 5, their names are Rachel Bean and Rosemary Coburn (given with consent), read the script

the police were arresting folks for drawing with chalk and stuff

contrary to what terrible reality tv dating shows have told you,

making fuck, is not a nike sneakers ad

you do not "just do it"

NOT "how do you have sex" = how is your body even capable of having sex?

"how do you like to have sex" = what feels good to you? What feels adventurous and wild or tender and intimate? what makes you feel excited and happy to be in bed with another human person?

but i really really really want to fucking stress this

you. ask the question. "how do you like to have sex?"

that is YOUR obligation, in fact. you as a cis person do not get to force blanket assumptions onto a trans partner about their experiences of pleasure

if they DONT or CANT answer that question and that's a dealbreaker for you? fine! that can be a dealbreaker for you! because that is a communication problem and communication problems are universal

that is a valid dealbreaker if you're trans and your partner is trans or you're trans and your partner is cis or what the fuck ever