@dragonminded hello I am a person whose birthday it is. I am wearing something ridiculous and my girlfriend is cross with me because I'm being stubborn about going to sleep.

@dragonminded hello

@alice ugh I'm working on this too. Some of my default exclamations are "man!" And "dude!", which I never noticed until I had a trans friend and realized how much misgendering (even when not aimed or referential) affects them. It's easy enough to correct, and I care about them and how they feel when I'm around, so it's something I'm putting effort into.

@deviantollam Is there a archived copy somewhere? I meant to watch it this morning but got caught in some issues at work. The link is now private.