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I started this blog (more precisely: the blog "And my story goes...") as some kind of 2024 project. I noticed (and it hurts) to be a prime example of how not to talk to yourself.
"Don't talk to yourself in a way you wouldn't talk to a close friend."

My journey through this fog can be found at
https://write.as/storygator

Blog about storytelling and selftalk

One year and I'm still here. I mean in/with this blog. my self-talk "George" tried to get me off track of course, more than once.
I guess he didn't want me to learn all his tricks.

George, my stream of thoughts is basically like a web forum. And you, dear old friend, are its troll.
So I guess this means open rebellion.

[~5min read]

https://write.as/storygator/like-a-troll-with-good-pr-department

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Like a troll with good PR department

One year and I'm still here. I mean in/with this blog. George tried to get me off track of course, more than once. I guess he didn't want me to learn all his tricks. No t...

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“Time flies.” Except when it doesn't.

Airport waiting areas always have this effect on me: They feel void of time. Everything is designed to stay constant.

But when I'm on a bus, the bus progresses, not me. Or do I?
Does it feel less like waiting if I get somewhere and not just “somewhen”?

[~3min read]

https://write.as/storygator/blockage-in-the-hourglass

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Blockage in the hourglass

"Time flies." Except when it doesn't. Time is a subjective, relative, elusive... we know all the clichés and we experienced them ourselves. But one thing we ca...

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We all occasionally do thing “just for fun”. From barely noticeable things like humming a melody over doodling on a sheet of paper to more lasting actions like fixing a broken thing in your place.

But your selftalk is whispering from around the corner:
"Hmm, well you should have put more effort in. I mean, you invested time, didn't you?"

A spikey path into dark woods...

[~2min read]

https://write.as/storygator/you-need-to-be-at-least-this-effort-investing-to-join-the-ride

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You need to be at least this effort-investing to join the ride

We all occasionally do thing "just for fun". From barely noticeable things like humming a melody over doodling on a sheet of paper to more lasting actions like fixing a broken thing in your place. ...

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We all get taught that "communication is a two-way street".

But what if they understood all along but hope to get a different answer by asking again?

"Don't hate the player", then how to play the game?

[~5min read]

https://write.as/storygator/now-fly-my-little-facts-fly

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Now fly my little facts, fly

We all get taught that "communication is a two-way street". But at some point, we also get taught that "you can't change others, you can only change yourself". Wel...

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My annual subscription is about to expire in January. Is there a chance I can renew already to gain the discount?

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Age. The final frontier.
Ok, maybe not the exact quote but let's be honest: we all think about age a lot.

A friend was acting silly which I called out as “acting like a child”.

What exactly was my problem?

https://write.as/storygator/adult-life-and-proper-boots

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Adult life and proper boots

Age. The final frontier. Ok, maybe not the exact quote but let's be honest: we all think about age a lot. The age we are, the "age we lost", the age we want to re...

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The German language has a word which – as my German friends tell me – is only rarely if at all used, yet it made its way into other languages: “Weltschmerz”

I don't consider Weltschmerz to be self-talk, it isn't a dialogue. At its core it is merely this feeling of pain too big to comprehend, sitting and screaming opposite to silent helplessness and impotence.

https://write.as/storygator/no-act-to-more-than-blind-the-pain

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No act to more than blind the pain

The German language has a word which - as my German friends tell me - is only rarely if at all used, yet it made its way into other languages: "Weltschmerz" On wikipedi...

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"In most situations, self-talk is patient and insidious. Not the brute villain but the manipulative one, tiny little pushes.

But as always, there are exceptions:

NOT ENOUGH, YOU JUST WAIT!
LET'S GO BACK IN THERE AND TELL THEM HOW IT IS!"

https://write.as/storygator/being-the-silent-voice-of-reason

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Being the silent voice of reason

OH YOU HAVE NO IDEA I HAVEN'T EVEN STARTED LET THERE BE FIRE!! In most situations, self-talk is patient and insidious. Not the brute villain but the manipulative one:...

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I can still remember when I started the blog months ago:

"Let's see how long until I run out of content!"

And now it feels like I might never stop. ^^

I have a question to the experienced bloggers around here: I picked topics in a random order, basically let them come to me, inspired by life. How do you catalog them, so that you don't repeat yourself?

Wishing everyone a good start into an even greater week! <3

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"To be precise, I considered what to make of it. I am an adult, living a – fairly – adult life: a job, insurances, responsibilities... and children plasters with teddy bears."

https://write.as/storygator/consolation-plasters

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Consolation plasters

Never attempt crafting when you're in a hurry. Or when you're annoyed. And even rather when you're both. We know the rules and we break them. I recently c...

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