| Pronouns | It's complicated |
| Location | London, UK |
| Fetlife | https://fetlife.com/users/733628 |
Okay, I should find somewhere else to hide given kinky.business is going offline. Any suggestions?
Looks like a lot of people are heading to kinkycats.org, but I also contemplate restraint.social, and look longingly at spookygirl.boo while well aware doing sex work once, over a decade ago, ain't gonna be enough to qualify to hang out with those cool kids...
As a man who enjoys presenting femme, "forced" femme was important to me for a long time: between societal and internalised transphobia, it was the only way I could imagine a partner being enthusiastic about me presenting as anything other than masc.
With hindsight what I wanted was encouragement and support. But as a young queer in a cishet society, it's often hard to believe those are possible, let alone things you deserve and can access.
I'm very glad the narrative on this stuff is shifting. @pandorablake and @[email protected] jump to mind as folk I trust on this topic and who I know have been helping move the window. I really hope the kids working out their genders and sexualities today and tomorrow have an easier time of it than me.