Not gonna lie, the idea of a maid whose purpose is intentionally to meander around glassy-eyed whilst failing to accomplish any chores is kind of hot.
(But, uh, seriously, if anyone can offer me halfway-decent recommendations that don't cost more than a modern video game, that'd be sweet)
Pleasure comes in many forms. Create it oftenπ
I start looking up bondage mitts online. I see one kink-specific item available for USD$85. I stare at it for several moments, dead-eyed. Sighing, I start browsing Walmart Dot Com, where medical restraint mitts are available for USD$14 ...
Mistress: All right, toy, on Thursday I'm gonna take you, whether you like it or not!
Sub: Oh, I've got some stuff on Thursday, can we do Friday?
Mistress: Sure, sorry, Friday works.
(sitting in my room topless for ten minutes because that's required by the cream I'm taking for pain in my shoulder, then immediately realizing that I forgot to turn the heat back on after I got back from doing groceries because I'm feeling uncomfortably cool) Temperature play.
Kink scene option for the middle of winter: the domme drives the sub to her (the domme's) place, and once there, the sub changes into summer clothes, i.e. short sleeves, lightweight clothing, etc. and then the domme places the winter clothes and the sub's phone somewhere the sub won't have an easy time accessing during the scene (a safe, a closet with a lock and only the domme knows the combination/has the key, etc).
Like, the sub gets brought there wearing clothing that's appropriate to winter weather, then changes into clothing that would make it uncomfortable, painful, or even dangerous if she tried to leave the building.
A few nights ago, I dreamed that there was someone with kinky mind-control powers, from whom I wanted to learn how to program a (computer-controlled?) vibrator to vibrate in an interesting pattern by combining multiple vibration-frequencies via "non-destructive interference". The interface for manipulating the vibrations resembled audio-editing software, which now that I'm awake seems to say some fascinating things about how fast the vibrator was expected to vibrate.
#kinklist
Clothing
Open to Clothed Sex
Open to Strip Tease
Open to Heels
Into Latex
Open to Leather
Open to Lingerie
Open to Masks
Open to Stockings
Into Intimate Piercings
Open to Underwear
Degradation
Open to Degradation
Open to Humiliation
Soft limit for Public Humiliation
Soft limit for Verbal Abuse
Soft limit for Begging
Into Forced nudity
Into Forced orgasm
Into Body writing (degrading)
Open to Saliva
Appreciation
Into Praise
Favorites Affection
Favorites Cuddling
Open to Kissing (lips)
Into Kissing (forehead)
Into Kissing (neck)
Into Kissing (other body parts)
Into Body writing (appreciative)
Behavior
Soft limit for Competition
Open to Power Imbalance
Open to Conditioning
Open to Clicker Training
Favorites Feminization
Open to Exhibitionism
Open to Voyeurism
Open to Photography / Videotaping
Open to Food Play
Open to Force Feeding
Open to Dirty Talking
Sensation
Open to Nibbling
Open to Licking
Open to Hickeys
Favorites Scritching
Favorites Headpats
Into Ice
Open to Electro Stimulation
Into Sensory Deprivation
Into Blindfolds
Open to Overstimulation
Headspaces
Into Pet Play
Open to Worship
Open to Primal
Open to Slavery
Soft limit for Domestic Servitude
Into Objectification
Open to Mind Control
Open to Memory Play
Positions
Open to Scissoring / Frotting
Open to Docking
Open to Hotdogging
Denial
Open to Teasing
Open to Orgasm Control
Open to Edging
Open to Denial (temporary)
Soft limit for Denial (long-term)
Open to Chastity
Soft limit for Sexual Frustration
Open to Interaction Restrictions
Open to Speech Restrictions
Body parts
Open to Physical worship
Open to Ears
Soft limit for Belly button
Into Breasts
Into Nipples
Soft limit for Butt
Penetration
Open to Penetration
Open to Multiple Penetration
Open to Gangbang
Open to Handjob / Fingering
Open to Fisting
Open to Training (Penetration)
Open to Enemas
Impact play
Soft limit for Slapping
Soft limit for Spanking
Soft limit for Genital slapping
Oral
Open to Fellatio / Cunnilingus
Open to Gaping
Open to Face-Fucking
Open to Deep throat
Toys
Open to Dildos
Open to Plugs
Open to Anal Beads
Open to Strap-ons
Into Vibrators
Open to Sounding
Physical Control
Favorites Bondage (light)
Into Bondage (heavy)
Into Immobilization
Into Suspension
Open to Collars
Into Gags
Into Leashing
Into Encasement
Into Cages
Into Apparatuses
Into Rope
Into Hand Cuffs
Into Pinning
Non Consent
Into Consensual Non-Consent
Open to Coercion
Open to Kidnapping
Into Sleep play
Open to Edge play
Open to Fear play
Soft limit for Breathplay
Soft limit for Passing out
Drugs
Open to Intoxication
Open to Sedatives
Open to Stimulants
Soft limit for Psychedelics (visual)
Soft limit for Psychedelics (tactile)
Soft limit for Dissociatives
Soft limit for Alcohol
Open to Weed
Pain
Open to Nipple pinching
Open to Sexual exhaustion