| Pronouns | He/him |
| Location | PNW, USA, Earth, Milky Way |
| Sexuality | Heteroflexible |
| Open DM? | For respectful messages/questions |
| Pronouns | He/him |
| Location | PNW, USA, Earth, Milky Way |
| Sexuality | Heteroflexible |
| Open DM? | For respectful messages/questions |
When you realize that life generally sucks because the people who taught you how to live sucked at living. And that you have been continuing the living suction you were taught without realizing how to truly suck.
Excuse me while I practice not sucking (and failing repeatedly)
Living rent free in my head today:
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Amazing when you finally realize how stuck youâve been for a while and can actually make some goals for myself.
Need to make some new friends and plans.
If you use Signal, Discord, or any other messaging app and you DON'T want Google or Apple monitoring/reading/learning from your messages, follow these steps.
Android:
1. Open Google app
2. Tap your profile photo
3. Settings
4. Google Assistant
5. "Your Apps"
6. Choose the app (e.g., Signal)
7. Toggle "Let your assistant learn from this app" off
iPhone:
1. Settings
2. Apps
3. Choose the app (e.g., Signal)
4. Toggle Apple intelligence or Siri settings to off (âlearn from this appâ)
This is a request to help me find others with #RAD or #ReactiveAttachmentDisorder. Boosts welcome.
Interesting how this may also be affecting others who have #ADHD (there are notable correlations so this may be something for that crowd to pay attention to).
If you relate to this passage, send me a follow request!
âOne of the most prominent symptoms is emotional dysregulation. Adults with RAD often feel like theyâre on an emotional rollercoaster, with intense feelings that seem to come out of nowhere. They might struggle to name or understand their emotions, leading to confusion and frustration.
Trust issues and fear of intimacy are also common hallmarks of RAD in adults. Imagine trying to build a house on a foundation of quicksand â thatâs how forming relationships can feel for someone with RAD. The fear of abandonment or rejection can be so overwhelming that it becomes easier to avoid close relationships altogether.â
Quotes from: https://neurolaunch.com/reactive-attachment-disorder-in-adults/
Last month I learned that I have #RAD or #ReactiveAttachmentDisorder. Since that moment, it feels like Iâm pulling back a curtain on my life.
âReactive Attachment Disorder is like an invisible barrier that separates individuals from the emotional connections most of us take for granted. Itâs a condition that develops when a childâs basic needs for comfort, affection, and nurturing arenât met during the crucial early years of life.â
To be fair, it isnât like this realization contains really stark discoveries: these are the issues that have been affecting my life over and over. And yet, I had no way to describe the problem in a way that could be understood. I simply thought I was the fucked up one. Well, thatâs still true but now having a way to describe how I feel makes it that much easier to help me start to make improvements.