i think it sucks when parents just tell kids like, oh you're getting punished because you didn't obey me. like,,
you're training your child to just, be someone who can't disobey, who will just go with abusive people because it's what they're supposed to do, scared of speaking up or against,,,,
please teach kids to understand and judge Why something they did was bad. kids do dumb stuff because they haven't done something before and don't know it's dangerous, that's it, , dont traumatize people for no reason