I survived partner abuse.
Also survived going to #37c3 on Hard Mode: with my abuser present but with a contact ban.
Post-Traumatic Growth since 2020.
Talk to me about cognition, psychology, space, science, ultraviolet and burns.
I read fluent German and I love comparative germanistic linguistics (SE/DE/EN/DK/NO/NL)
Proud member of the Swedish national team in Yogasport. Yes it's a thing.
I'm not coming to #39c3. This means that my abuser who has a Congress Contact Ban towards me can dance without fear of bumping into one of his survivors. 🙃
This man is still proudly conducting cybersexual misconduct towards me, something that he openly admitted to #schiedsstelle.
I'm one of the very few people who have successfully gotten a person banned from Congress. It was awful and draining to do so, but in all fairness the police process was worse.
@levampyre @fuzzle the One Year Ban +5 Year Restrictions plan that the Schiedsstelle has mandated is there with the explicit idea that time will heal. This is the explicitly stated reason why the One Year Ban was completely useless. They didn't regard my need to de-traumatise myself without him being around for one year, as I thought was the idea.
Based on those pieces of data I'd say that NO they do not take his psychopathy into account... 1/2
@levampyre @fuzzle rehabilitation was my preferred solution too. During the months that I broke free from him I was convinced that his root issue was addiction, and I tried to get his family to make him go to rehab. I later learned that addiction wasn't the root cause of his abuse.
Psychopathy is.
He lacks capacity for remorse and he can never stop abusing people. It's agonizing, knowing that his next victim will also be unprofessionally treated by the police and distrusted by society.
@levampyre @fuzzle thank you for this question. The original failing is with the judicial systems. My Abuser should have gone to jail for one of the rapes he committed on me, one where there was a witness. However the Swedish police is failing miserably when the rapist lives in another EU country.
So, the Congress has committed to picking up the slack. The Schiedsstelle has looked into it and made a thorough investigation. Since they do believe me, my Abuser should be Banned. Full stop.
@trav_tan @casandro thank you Tania for stepping in an giving a good clarification based on what I have written 
The current status is that Schiedsstelle has concluded that my story is believable and his is not.
The Schiedsstelle then decides that a person they believe to have done very serious crimes should have the freedom to roam the Congress essentially in full freedom, including in "hard to police areas" (exact quote), such as the dance floor...
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@diowdaddwa I'm open to talk about this :) not gonna name names, since my goal is not vengeance towards my Abuser but rather to make abusers and psychopaths in general less harmful.
Do you have any more specific questions or reflections that are not covered in my thread from last year?