Trying not to be a control freak as I had done to me all my life by helicopter parents, but my lease renewal is coming up and almost free of the ex and their partner. Feeling bad as I want to move and live alone but they are both in a bad spot financially. They have not worked since November. I tried and lined up opportunities, most of which they refused to even apply for. I am not sure what more to do other than start applying for them as I have done everything else within my power, but that crosses that control line of what I am comfortable with.
When the time comes I am going to be selfish and prioritize myself as the living environment has been hostile, and I need my savings, health and space for surgery and my possible life emergencies. I refuse to make my life about helping people who actively hate me. I don't want to see them homeless, but I have waited long enough for surgery and treated every moment in my life as if all depended on it nonstop. I deserve to put myself first. More of a thought post of my current worries so I can get this off my mind and get back to self studies as I want to be able to move up financially, survive and cut my last debt tieing me to stay in contact with blood for my degree that proved over saturated with AI and outsourcing when I entered the market.