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Bootblack, leather boy, masochist. Expect: cats, bodybuilding, sex positivity, BDSM. ๐Ÿ”ž
LocationLondon
Pronounshe/him
๐ŸŽถ I need a himbo
I'm holding out for a himbo till the end of the night
He's gotta be cute, and he's gotta be buff
And he's gotta be dumber than shite. ๐ŸŽถ
Gonna be shifting over to bluesky slowly I think. Too much transphobia on the birdsite, not enough cat memes on mastodon. So far, Bluesky seems a much easier space to navigate with more diverse content. Hope to see you of you over there!

Me, on a day where I have a Big Life Thing: I sure miss wearing a daily collar, and the reminder of security and strength that came with that.

My horoscope: SLAUGHTER NOSTALGIA

Normalize telling your friends you love them. Tell them a lot. Make it weird.

This took me a while to figure out and I'm still not sure how to put it into words, but it's been on my mind a lot the last few years:

"Community" isn't a label you adopt or a party you show up to. It's what you bring to the table.

If you want to feel connected when you walk into the bar, you have to introduce yourself to people and make conversation. If you want to play, you have to approach and ask for what you want. If you want a certain kind of event, you gotta organize, donate, volunteer.

Cat is cat.

Some of the portrait photos I have done this year so far, looking forward to the 2nd half of year. ๐Ÿ“ธ

It gives me such joy to document & show off the fetish scene in a way thatโ€™s colourful, fun and (hopefully) welcoming. ๐Ÿ˜

Boundaries can help you carve space in your life for self care. They're important.
I've recently read a comment saying "Bigotry is an emotional attachment to ignorance" and now I can't stop thinking about it
Feeling really good about how my body is looking atm. Still more work to put in, but that's exciting!! ๐Ÿ˜