AmandaGay

@AmandaGay081321
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@britt trans 19 year old in the middle of Ohio here. The hostile attitudes towards queer people and our bodies not only made me feel incredibly isolated as a younger teen, but directly contributed to me being sexually assaulted in a locker room when I was 15 and suspected of being queer.

I had to move to online schooling when I came out as trans, isolating me even more. All I could really do was wait for adulthood.

I feel for any queer person who has to grow up in this place <3

I just want to let you know something. Despite all my positive posts, I want you to know that it's perfectly okay to not be okay. There's a lot going wrong, a lot of happenings to mourn. It's necessary to let yourself feel, because hiding it all away or ignoring it is detrimental. Vent, cry, be mad if you need to. Express yourself however you feel is right.

Just don't forget... there really is a lot to be happy about too. Rely on those and keep them in your mind when you're ready to move past being depressed.

Your feelings are valid, poth positive and negative. Feeling is part of living.

💙💙💙

Just a few reminders for you in case you need them:

💙 You are amazing!

💙 You can do the thing!

💙 You deserve love in all its forms!

💙 You're doing great!

💙 You're gorgeous, inside and out!

💙 You are witty and fun to be with!

💙 You are unique!

💙 You're really heckin' smart, skilled and talented!

Don't forget to #boost so all your friends get these reminders too!! 😽

@Bwee thank you for the reminder, I actually really needed this today 🥹
I’m currently recovering from bottom surgery and it’s been a struggle to care for my mental health as closely, so reminders like this mean a lot <3

@fraying I’m currently 19 and in Ohio. Gender affirming care as a minor saved my life and I have bottom surgery coming up in a few months.

What happens when the unthinkable happens and my access to hormones is restricted? There’s no world where I can go back to before. I can’t live that way again. I won’t do it.

Please, keep your trans friends and family close, let them know you’ll fight for them and believe their fears. Nobody deserves to have their lives ripped away by hate.

@oldladyplays thank you so much. I’m a trans young adult in a very conservative part of the US. I’m absolutely terrified for my future here. I want so desperately to leave once I’ve had my bottom surgery (august 1st!!) and it’s really terrifying. I’d be uprooting my entire life but if my state finds a way to prevent me from getting hrt or worse, I know where I’ll look to first.

Thank you. Seeing this gives me hope. Hope that I may actually have a future somewhere.

The sheer #transjoy of having your body and mind respected and appreciated is insane. I met my bf almost a year ago and I’ve truly never felt so loved and respected by someone in my life.
I was really intimidated seeing him for the first time but… he just listened and understood me. We discovered eachother’s bodies together and it was just this frantic moment of healing.
I find myself feeling like the luckiest person because I never thought it was possible for me, a trans person, to feel this.