@adelemitch Shoot. Not to bag on Cointreau, but gin really needs bitter or sour to set it off.
@worstgirleva I have a friend who is doing FHT, but loves her facial hair and is conflicted about it thinning/disappearing. She's even gotten crap from other transfolk about her beard. These boxes we put each other into are crazy.
I'm a cis het female who has dressed butch for a lot of my life and even when I've been mistaken for a man I've never felt like anything other than a woman. I would never question someone else's ID based on how "feminine" they look.