Operation Flashpoint (the precursor to ARMA games) is now open source on github, courtesy of Bohemia Interactive:
https://github.com/BohemiaInteractive/CWR
This is the earliest example of an "infantry sim" I can think of. It was one of those games where you could be crawling through acres of a forest to flank an enemy, and then be killed in an instant by a random sentry you neglected to account for. Very realistic, very frustrating, but also very rewarding when you managed to survive.
