as an #actuallyautistic person who has always had a hard time intuiting unwritten rules, i gotta say i have not been loving the sentiment i have been seeing from leftists and anarchists telling me that their ideal society is one where no rules will be written, because which rules are necessary changes so frequently and every rule has exceptions and we can't write them *all* down and really the rules should be obvious to everyone, and everyone will be allowed and encouraged to enforce the unwritten rules through violence
whether intentional or not it feels like they're telling me "I'm sure you'd be able to figure out the unwritten rules if your life depended on it" and then wondering why i don't like them
must be i just want an excuse to be a bigot or a debatebro i guess