I give up.

I have tried every way I can to establish a private instance for all of my #fediverse and #socialnetworking needs. I've tried Hubzilla, GNUSocial, and Friendica, but maintaining the cost of a virtual private server isn't justifiable to me and those apps don't play well with shared hosting, which is all I can afford right now (and I don't have the space to set up a personal server).

The fact of the matter is that the only self-hosted application that checks the boxes of being a) dead simple to install on shared hosting--preferably through Softaculous since I just don't feel like jumping through hoops, b) well-supported, c) easy to use, and d) able to connect with both ActivityPub and AT protocols is WordPress, which I am reluctant to use because Matt Mullenweg is a pretty detestable as a human.

That said, I am holding my nose and using WordPress as my social networking hub until and unless something that isn't tainted with Mullenweg's nonsense comes along, so here I be.

I am rebuilding my profile and follow lists, and I apologize to those of you who seem to get a new follow request from me every other day, but I plan on this being the last time until the unlikely WordPress-killer comes around.

Thank you for your patience.


#activitypub #self-hosting #bluesky #fediverse #mastodon #WAFRN #pixelfed #loops #fediverse #socialnetworking

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You can host a wafrn on a 6€/mo server (contabo, netcup vps) or 20€/year server (piensasolutions, i have that one. Paid whole year)

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The issue is that I have a ton of shared space that I've been using for other things, and I'm trying not to invest any more money until my hand is forced.

That said, once I make that leap, a single user instance of WAFRN is likely going to be my final destination.


#Making-due-with-what-I've-got
@arokk There's Snac2 which SHOULD work on shared hostings too. I have not managed to install it but maybe you're more lucky than me... I don't remember the link right now. But I gave up as well - despite being self-hosting, I'm using WordPress who covers my own needs, together with network needs I also have accessibility necessities so...
Mullenweg is awful. And I'm expecting he's enshittifying the platform more and more. I say it openly, despite having talked to 3 different wordcamps, one WordPress accessibility day, I'm one of ActivityPub plugin's Italian translators. I help the community, but Mullenweg can f-off when he wants.
@arokk #Yunohost on a VPS or selfhost on your fibre connection using #openwrt on your router to manage the network, DMZ etc.
@arokk I'm sorry to know you had hard experience to set up private instance. I also had been through the same. But yeah my private instance still fragile. I wonder if it will last until I pass away.