Carmen-Lisandrette

I'm a 30-something #asexual #lesbian.

I've been struggling on and off for a while with some really miserable thoughts; exactly the ones you'd expect me to have. I'd really appreciate someone to talk to, especially a woman older than me.

I'm not on Facebook (and can't join, thx Meta) and completely isolated from other queer people; local queer groups are for kids or not functional.

I'm not in any danger.

#help #lgbtqia

Apr 11 at 8:28amWeb
Show threadCarmen-Lisandrette1d ago
If I don't reply for a while, it's just because I've gone to bed.
Show threadLou Cramazouk Rabia Jeanne1d ago
@carmenlisandrette Hello girl. We can talk a little and be friends on the network to begin with.
I'm no asexual so it will be friendship if anything. But I don't like that you're alone like this.
Show threadCarmen-Lisandrette19h ago
@loucramazouk Hey :) Love to chat sometime.
Show threadLou Cramazouk Rabia Jeanne14h ago
@carmenlisandrette i just discovered there is no private messages in mastodon! I use jabber now, do you? [email protected]
Show threadCarmen-Lisandrette12h ago
@loucramazouk I can use jabber. I'll have to sign up.
Show threadLou Cramazouk Rabia Jeanne1d ago
@carmenlisandrette I'm a 39 yo trans lesbian btw
Show threadLisa1d ago
@carmenlisandrette I’m mid-40s heteroromantic asexual (among the least obvious types of queer, thought I was just a prude for most of my life). Happy to chat, I keep eastern US hours though. I’m on Signal? Same name with .45 at the end.
Show threadCarmen-Lisandrette19h ago

@LisaMaesie

I would love that. Maybe a couple days time?

Show threadCarmen-Lisandrette19h ago
@LisaMaesie actually, apparently you can't use Signal without a phone. If you have some other way of chatting , still keen :)
Show threadLisa19h ago

@carmenlisandrette Huh! Did not know that. I’m here, Bluesky, and iMessage (Gmail address) if you happen to have an Apple device.

Or, heck, email. Man how is that the last thing I think of? Aforementioned Gmail. Hah.

I saw an article recently that messaging with random strangers is better for mental health than AI!

Show threadCarmen-Lisandrette19h ago
@LisaMaesie I can send you an e-mail. I'm not on Bluesky and I don't have a phone.
Show thread66gardeners2h ago
@carmenlisandrette
You are not alone. We will listen.