I've never met a femme-presentingΒΉ person who didn't have a sexual harassment/assault story.

Most have one from within the past week.

My most recent harassment was yesterday (but I haven't really left the house yet today, so there's still time).

My first sexual assault was at ~13Β².

ΒΉ InB4 some guy hops in to remind us all that men get SA'd too
Β² that I remember

@alice I was aged 10... I don't have the words to say on main the severity, the frequency, who was involved. It is nothing short of harrowing.

I still cry for that 10y old.

@dee I'm so sorry that happened to you πŸ«‚

@alice thank you. I'd like to say time makes for healthier coping methods and being able to forgive. But for me time just made it possible to name my pain and carry it with more familiarity and a little less discomfort.

To those who cross my path I'm the most gentle, kind and generous person, but no one this kind isn't carrying something.

One day, maybe, I'll put what I experienced on main. But this is one thing I cannot share without hurting the person who listens.

πŸ˜”

@dee 6 years old. I don't remember it, thankfully. CPTSD does bury that which cannot be borne. My deepest sympathies for your ongoing trauma.😒   @alice
@Tooden @alice same to you. It's hard. Fracturing and dissociating is both a gift and a curse. So much love to you, a survivor πŸ’œ