@ryancheley Words can only do so much at a time like this, so I won't pretend I know the right ones to say.

I've got a friend who's deeply religious, but runs in circles with others who are not. In times like these he always calls for "prayers and ineffectual secular well wishes". A bit of levity in an otherwise shitty situation. Always makes me chuckle.

You and your family will be in thoughts. Sending prayers and ineffectual well wishes.