I wonder who needs to leave whom alone at this point 🫠 I literally wouldn't give a single fuck about this person anymore for months now if she wouldn't constantly create throw away accounts to harrass me again and again and again.

What a fucking looser.

#fediblock https://null.mkultra.social/@cmdr_nova

New instance, same old shit, and since I was asked for receipts, a link with more links to a non exhaustive list of things this cmdr-nova said to and about me: https://todon.nl/@elenyafinwe/116285322500687238
Plus the above posted.
In my experience this behaviour is typical for people who have a bias against transmascs speaking about their own oppression, trying to devalue their lived experience. The mindset is that trans men are men and therefore can't be oppressed, ignoring the fact they still experience transmisia and transmisandry as a specific form of transmisia. That's why I think it's important to bring this to a wider audience instead of just quietly blocking and moving on.

Edit: Another example of her shitty behavior:
https://blobfox.coffee/@Ember/116340129581215502
For me it seems a typical behaviour of this cmdr-nova that she likes to pull the marginalization card against others. It should not come as a surprise, but people who are marginalized in one way or another, can still oppress others. And trans people can have internalized transmisia just like PoC can have internalized racism and so on. Being marginalized is no free card for assholes behaviour imho.

E2: found another instance:
https://labyrinth.zone/users/daemon_nova

Screenshots pulled from my bsky account. From time to time I search certain key words such as slurs targeted at transmasculine people and trans men to add those accounts to my blocklist, and then move on, usually forgetting about them just a moment later. In June 2025, when I encountered a certain cmdr-nova.bsky.social, I had already abandoned my Tumblr account, it was pretty much dead and gathering dust. Suddenly I got a notif with an ask that just hurled random slurs at me. Took me a bit to connect the dots, as you can see below. She later confessed it was her and bragged about it. Quite a dedication to dig that up just toninsult me. That's the start of this story. From then on it continued with insults in my DMs via throw away accounts and revenge list.

Besides ... Ableistic as fuck, just saying.

Re the name of my list: I could have named it Anti-transmasculinity, it expresses the same concept, it's just quite the mouthfull to say. I avoid transandrophobia because that's ableist. So transmisandry it is.

"This is just a rando you disagree with over politics!"

Is it really tho? Let's take a look at how cmdr-nova speaks about transmasculine people and trans men in genderal, not just me. Screenshots pulled from her personal blog: https://mkultra.monster/discourse/2025/11/18/wafrn-wtf/

Wafrn is afaik a Tumblr alternative run by mainly trans people, because Tumblr is, uh, not nice to us let's say. Apparently Wafrn had banned a radfem who happend to be a trans woman, because she said radfem things going along the way: "I hate all men and don't care if they are cis or trans."
Let's make a simple comparison. Transmisia and racism have very similar ways how they work, therefore let's replace cis with white and trans with black. I hope everyone would agree that this would be racist. So why should such a mindset be acceptible if it's targeted at trans men?

Transmasculine people experience transmisia on top of misogyny. But because transmisogyny is already defined as the specific intersection of transmisia and misogyny targeted at transfems we need another word for our lived experience, because it is not just transmisia and it works different than transmisogyny.

Claiming that our oppression isn't real ist by the way one form transmisandry manifests.

Let's continue. cmdr-nova wasn't happy that her fellow tirf was banned for expressing transmisic believes. That's how she talks about those trans men responsible (I believe) for this mod decision. I added the Screenshots linked in the text.

Originally I wrote that I thought cmdr-nova had some sort of beef with transfems.social. Turns out the beef was actually with Wafrn, tho she is also not happy with transfem.social for saying: "Hey, transmisia doesn't get cool, when it comes from other trans people." Which I agree to.