quick informal poll: if you’re reading to your three-year-old and they correct your pronunciation (and they’re right), how do you react?
@senanthic You congratulate them and say thank you for teaching me that word.
@senanthic
"You're right, thank you for helping me!"
@senanthic "Drat, I've been saying that wrong for years! Well, thanks for helping me out."
@senanthic not sure about a three year old but "that is the more common pronunciation but what I said is also acceptable" is usually a winner. Some dictionary somewhere will have it as a recognized descriptivist option.