You really need a strong bond of trust to raise a Big dog. Odin likes to play a game with me when I get the leash, where he tries to prevent me actually getting it on until he concedes he’s cornered (or I get serious about there being no time for games).

And I realize it must look, to someone else, like he’s trying to bite my hand off! But he’s not. He’s making a play-gesture that doesn’t hurt at all. And I have complete trust in him when he “snaps” at my hand that we’re playing a game and it’s never his intent to hurt me.

(Okay yes there’s a tooth-hole in my sleeve, but he was a puppy when he did that.)

(And if you’re worried about hypotheticals… he doesn’t play this way with randos. Odin understands he can play rough with mommy and daddy but not people outside the house)

@0xabad1dea

lol yeah, the face, ears, tail, and the downright prancing body language are all saying "play" there and that's absolutely adorable.

@munin I didn’t anticipate how often people would jump to the conclusion my dog is aggressive because he’s big while ignoring every single emotional signal he’s giving off of adoring them and wanting to love them forever

@0xabad1dea

yeah, alas, 'big' tends to override a lot of thinking for people generally.