Today is officially #WorldAutismAwarenessDay, designated by the United Nations as day of recognition and appreciation. This kicks off #AutismAwarenessMonth, which many of us call #AutismBewarenessMonth because it's always much more about "here's how bad autism is" than "here's how to make autistic people's lives better". When we want to be more positive than snarky, we call it #AutismAcceptanceMonth, because it's better to be accepted than for people to be aware of us mainly as a set of problems.

The problem with the above is that all that awareness and acceptance is something that allistic people are supposed to do, so the occasion centers allistic people instead of autistic people. The whole month is about how allistic people think and feel about us – it's not actually about us at all!

But over on Bluesky, Aslynn (`@audhd-psychnp.com`) hit on some better branding: Autistic People's Month! I really like this, as it centers us in our own celebration. #AutisticPeoplesMonth is not about how anyone else feels about us, but about our own existence, accomplishments, problems, and all the rest. I hope this catches on, so doing my part to make it happen. April is now ours!

#ActuallyAutistic #autistic #autism #neurodiversity

@joshsusser
It does indeed, sound so much better.

@joshsusser

I feel like allistic awareness or acceptance hasn’t been real…

Maybe we need an allistic beware-ness month.

Anyway… Tomorrow im going to the library with a case manager.

@joshsusser I just changed my Header description to that.😊

@joshsusser

I'm not yet sold on the idea of celebrating myself for something that I did not accomplish.

That's like nationalism.

But I do flirt with the idea of celebrating obstacles I've overcome.

I get the broarder idea of such attention events and while I still struggle to see real value in them I also like watching people that do so and trying to learn something from that and them.

@datatrash I get that. I used to feel that way about Gay Pride in June, since it seems a bit silly to be proud of something you can't take credit for. But then I figured I'd spent a lot of my life feeling shame for something I couldn't be blamed for, so why not? Liberation is also about having the freedom to feel different about ourselves than how the world says we should feel.

@joshsusser

That's a good point.

I'll just keep observing for now, I guess.
Maybe it will also grow on me.