Ok, if you have a problem with someone, communicate it to them, clearly and respectfully. Do not go behind backs. Do not punish people for things they don't even know they did. If people know there's a problem, they can do something to fix it. jumping straight into dick mode is not the way to do it. If you can't communicate, then maybe you shouldn't be moderating anything.
@evilcookies98 You're thinking like somebody with common sense, and it's quite clear the idiots running the instance in question haven't got any. And then people have the nerve to wonder why they end up with results they don't like when they pull crap on the wrong person. Yet another reason Mastodon being set up the way it is, with individuals running individual instances is an extremely bad idea. You sure as hell didn't see this going on on twitter.
@maerlynofmiria it was fine when she went to sleep, and I checked it for her, no past warnings, no email, nothing.
@evilcookies98 And yet the account doesn't exist now? Like I said, this is one of many reasons Mastodon being set up in separate instances is not a good thing. and the reasons are growing in number. Let's see. For months on end, Trolly McTrollerson was able to simply flit from instance to instance with impunity, and now we've got abuse of power at the admin level. I can't really say it surprises me though. after all, the same sort of thing was going on for the majority of 2023.
@maerlynofmiria and maybe they think they don't have to explain because we're adults and should know better, but I can't magically know if there's a problem somewhere.
@evilcookies98 @maerlynofmiria you can always, always, ask me for account on my instance.
@patricus @evilcookies98 There we go, yet another solution open.
@maerlynofmiria @evilcookies98 I'm happy to get cookie's friends or her on my instance. I'd even pay for such a privilege.
@patricus @evilcookies98 I swear up to god the person who killed those sessions on the other instance was so being petty.
@maerlynofmiria @patricus if I was a bigger dick, I would go nuts
@evilcookies98 @patricus aw hugs. I'd say go with the offer.