When I was figuring my self out, one of the things that cracked off a big chunk of shell was a reasonably famous dude on Twitter (well you know Twitter famous) saying he'd thought about his gender and come to the conclusion he was really a dude.

Up until that point I'd been hiding behind the assumption that anyone who actually thought about this would end up figuring they aren't their gender assigned at birth, and most people have just never thought about it but were probably some flavour of non binary at least.

RE:
masto.hackers.town/users/siege/statuses/116177643222854981
So... Hay... Cis folk, I... Errr... Think there are some of you following me... Maybe...

Want to do a trans person a solid and chime in with your answers below.?

Have you thought about your gender? What it would be like to not be your current gender?

Did it feel good? Better? "Oh fuck no"?
@mindpersephone After I came out as gay to myself I wondered what other parts of myself were completely fabricated in order to fit societal expectations. Upon further reflection though, it turned out gender was not up for grabs. I do think the extra introspection helped me be more confident in my masculinity and avoid the toxic masculinity the runs so rampant