I personally consider "I asked ChatGPT to generate a response to you" not witty but a form of an insult. Don't do that please. If that is how you want to talk to people at least don't tell me. It's offensive.
@tante My correspondence would then consist solely of pure commands and direct instructions.
@tante yep. "It's Rude to Show AI Output to People" nailed it
@SnoopJ @tante "I couldn't be bothered to interact with you so I rented a robot from a fascist to do it"
@SnoopJ @tante From now on I think I'll just respond "I can just go straight to ChatGPT next time if you're no longer needed."
@tante "I asked ChatGPT" sounds like "I don't even really care what I write to you."

The only response should be "Not wasting my time with someone that does not want to have an honest talk."
@tante Personally it makes me feel a weird kind of sadness.

As if I was looking at someone who's been struggling to open a jar of pickles for 10 minutes but they've got too much pride to admit that they can't open it.
@tante I actually want people to tell me if they are using a bot to speak to me. That way I can just block them lol
@tante
Me: Just send me the prompt.
@Takiro @tante AI is lossy data expansion: you start with a short prompt, which is expanded into a paragraph, then sent across the internet, where another AI summarizes the paragraph down, back into a short statement.
@drahardja @Takiro @tante That would make an *amazing* game of ā€œTelephoneā€: sending a message from one AI to another and seeing what comes out...

@tante

I am encountering more and more "helpful" people that AI-splain answers.
"I heard that you asked about xyz. I don't know the answer, but I asked chatgpt for you, and it said...."

WTF? Jusk keep quiet, if I wanted a slop answer I could ask the slop-o-mat myself!

@tante
I realize that the only way I could respond to that would be: "cool, but I didn't ask chatgpt. What's your response?"

Then I could watch their brain short circuit having to internalize and paraphrase chatgpt. Or at least, they'd be leery to mention that ever again.

@tante On the other hand it's an efficient way to identify people to block so they don't produce even more CO2 just to tell me they can't be bothered to interact like a human.
@tante "let me google that for you" is a great insult from the ancients (~2005)
@thomasfuchs @tante came to the comments to say this. I think there was a website that let you do shortlinks that animated the google search.
We used it when people adked trivial questions they should just have looked up themselves.
@thomasfuchs @tante Google has become so unusable that "let me Google that for you" in 2026 sounds less like snark and more like a kind offer to take one for the team.
@tante Wait, there are people who think that's *witty*, of all things?
@tante I basically blank everything after "ChatGPT/Claude/Trump said" and skip to the next paragraph.
@tante I know a person who has, in an actual face-to-face conversation with me, pulled out his phone to ask ChatGPT what to say to me.
@datarama @tante Did you walk away? I would walk away.
@drahardja @tante No. I was so shocked I basically just got stunned and didn't know what to do. It felt so absurd that my brain felt like it had to do a hard reset.
@datarama @drahardja @tante This comic strip came  to mind immediately.
@algernon @drahardja @tante This guy was outsourcing his conversational skills to ChatGPT in early 2024!
@datarama @algernon @tante Big ā€œmy dad can debate you tomorrowā€ energy
@datarama @[email protected] During a meeting about our company’s stance on AI, our boss asked ChatGPT what the role of a software developer would look like in five years. 🤦
@Huchgott I'm not going to claim I know that, but I *am* going to claim that ChatGPT certainly doesn't.

@tante In the movie "A Soldier's Story," the black Captain Davenport visits the white camp commandant's home. The commandant's wife brings the commandant a drink on the hot day, and solicitously offers to "have someone bring you a drink" to Davenport.

Yes, she maintains propriety towards an officer reporting to her husband, but no, she absolutely will not personally hand a drink to a black man.

Same energy.

@tante I’ve had people do this to me when I need their specific alleged expertise. It’s a great way for me to filter out the asshats I don’t need input from.

@tante

For me, the absolute worst context is a work discussion where someone says this. To me, it communicates ā€I don’t know this subject, and now it’s your job to figure out if this tracks with reality.ā€

I’ve made it a personal policy to ignore the contents that follow those words _and_ inform the person speaking of it too.

@tante

Admitting to self-lobotomizing your life.

Dirk Haun (@[email protected])

Wenn der Kollege, dessen Expertise Du schƤtzt, auf eine sehr spezifische Frage aus seinem Fachgebiet nur mit einer Bildschirmseite copy&paste aus Copilot antwortet šŸ˜ž Das ist doch das gleiche, wie wenn hier jemand eine Frage stellt und jemand anderes eine KI-Antwort drunterkleistert. Gibt's dafür schon ein Wort? Vor allem für das Gefühl der EnttƤuschung? šŸ¤”

tinycities

@tante Agreed

I explicitly note in emails that there was no use of AI/LLM’s in any way, just to make it clear

@tante I'm OK with it. It's a useful flag that I can stop reading.

@jmax @tante

Agreed!

I think it should be mandatory.
It's fraudulent to send a message over your signature that you did not write.

@tante Yes. I would add that if someone asks me to explain my reasons why I find it offensive, that person is being flippant.
@tante I usually respond ā€œSorry, I’m not going to read what you didn’t write.ā€
I had this happen at work and I quietly removed that person from the project
Trump’s Huge AI Project Is Running Into a Major Financial Problem

The financial situation behind Donald Trump's Stargate AI project could soon become unsustainable, analysts warn.

Futurism

3/

Improved features for profitable mainstream applications are being sacrificed for spyware features that are loathed.

https://futurism.com/artificial-intelligence/microsoft-screwed-up-windows-11-copilot

https://www.bloomberg.com/news/newsletters/2026-03-23/microsoft-msft-ai-copilot-confronts-its-identity-crisis-in-re-org-mn32qmuk

They're even willing to sink their own stock to get AI implemented.
https://247wallst.com/investing/2026/03/23/melius-analyst-microsofts-copilot-reorganization-is-a-red-flag/

The people who developed those features were laid off & not replaced to make more room on the balance sheet for a flood of AI money from the fossil fuel industry.

Koch supports AI solely for partisan gain.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/mattdurot/2025/07/17/bill-gates-charles-koch-and-three-other-billionaires-are-giving-1-billion-to-enhance-economic-mobility-in-the-us/

Microsoft Realizes It’s Epically Screwed Up Windows 11 as Users Rage at Copilot AI Crammed Everywhere

Windows VP Pavan Davuluri effectively admitted outright that the company went too far to shove AI down users' throats at all costs.

Futurism

@tante Why? Because it suggests you are not smart enough to do something? Or some other reason?

I guess it is transparent. It provides help (the best given person can give, probably), the source and instructions how to get it by yourself in the future. If you don't like it, you can just ignore the answer. Or person.

@rozie @tante It's not help though. It's the online version of thoughts and prayers.

@rozie

"The robot will approximate my thoughts and prayers."

Dunno about you, but I prefer authentic if imperfect human to human speech or writing. If I wish to communicate with a robot, I'll wait on hold with my cell provider's menu robot.

@tante

@rozie If I wanted the output of ChatGPT, I would've asked ChatGPT myself. When I ask a groups of humans specifically because I want an answer from an experienced human user and someone replies with LLM output, that adds absolutely nothing of value to the conversation. It furthermore implies that the person thinks I don't know how to use ChatGPT, which is insulting. It just wastes my time.
@davidculley So giving an answer based on RFC, encyclopedia, book, manual or Wikipedia implies that a person asking a question does not know how to use them and is insulting too?
If not, what makes the difference?
@tante ā€œAI:DRā€ is definitely my mindset. The ol’ ā€œif you can’t bother writing it I won’t bother reading itā€ stance.
@tante Lots of people still haven't worked out that ChatGPT isn't a search engine. I hope the people setting tonight's pub quiz have finally seen the light. It's been pretty dire the last few times. Babylonian Empire was the largest in history? How do you even hallucinate that?
@tante my boss asked me to define the conventions of a new project we were going to start working on. After I finished the docs and sent them to him, he answered with slop. I.e. he didn't read them just asked chatgpt to summarize and send 'advice' and 'corrections'. And yes I can confirm it is offensive.
@tante in my case "asked [insert llm here]" is a quick way to loose credibility. also... "google" is a company, not a verb (being so is just marketing), the action has always been "search". i have not used google search in years... my 2 cents
@tante myeahh this but I appreciate the disclosure, even if obvious, having to guess is awkward
@tante how different is to say i googled IT ?