@Silversnapples @benavison @UkeleleEric
I am sure 99 percent of activities guides do involve hands and or feet, so there is no reason not to be inclusive.
All this is getting caught up in the campaign to end violence against women and girls, they want to make spaces only for women, e,g changing rooms. In some cases I think with that you end up with, as you say only certain types of women allowed in due to the toxic culture, so it is just counter productive from a safety viewpoint, in fact if you get bulled out, this compromises your safety, not that the bullies see it that way, they will say they are being bullied if someone questions them.
I have no idea on the actual crime stats, but if a man wanted to enter the women's changing rooms or other space and attack someone, that is going to happen (and vice versa), having a trans women in that space is to me no more risky.
You're right, it is getting to the point where spaces are toxic and don't want to include others regardless.