@ireneista @rysiek @samir
I see. You talk about a particular framing. I refer to a generic philosophy concept. It forms a core principle of SX methodology: the Mindfulness principle. Mindful of own needs and relations to others.
In FOSS circles we are often so frustrated at the sudden splintering of a community, or a huge drama break out, or just a burnt out volunteer suddenly and silently disappearing from the scene. Even mundane friction between 'users' (a word to avoid) and devs, where one finds the other privileged, or overly demanding. All examples of expectation mismatches.
Self-interests are indicative of Needs.
Self-interested participants are Stakeholders.
Or they may be, and that is up to a good approach to figure out. Best done timely, before any issues arise.
For example in FOSS, the devs usually don't see themself as a stakeholder. They often only talk about 'users'. But did they start a project as hobby, or to earn a living? What do they want? Where do they wanna go?