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ImakeIcecream Mar 21

Chad was the wankerbutternoodle Mstdn.ca owner who had called the cops on me for some past political posts. It was using cop violence on POC. The cops showed up & left fast, because it was all BS. It traumatized my Mom & enraged me. The cowardly liar then denied it when I posted about it all. A bunch of white folks supported him & didn't believe me. I knew #karma would catch up with that liar, sooner or later. Now, it has.

Cops will be coming after him, for a real crime.
I told you all that Chad was a dirty, lying weasel. Maybe, believe me instead of the white guy, next time 🤡

https://toot.cat/@catzilla/116267551374750231

#Criminal #Fraud #Canadian #Alberta #Liar #ToldYouSo #ConMan

Spring Cat (@[email protected])

The mstdn.ca drama has to be the spiciest (and actually one of the most serious) fedi drama I have ever witnessed since I came here The moderator of the instance is being sued for stealing 280k from a local Edmonton community league Many users of mstdn.ca have complained of technical instability etc but this is not that, it’s a serious lawsuit that made it to CBC https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/edmonton/inglewood-league-lawsuit-missing-funds-9.7136933

Toot.Cat

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

When POC women tell you that stranger white guys have weaponized cops to try to scare us/punish us/shut us up - when they think we're getting a bit too 'uppity' with our political speech/opinions - we don't do it for fun. It's because it happened, it's wrong & we don't have to be quiet when it happens to us.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

It all happened shortly after my Dad died & when I was already dealing with human rights violations from Saanich PD over trespassing in our home, unmasked, on night my Dad died. I was under severe stress & was open about it all on former instance. I remember the entire fiasco & weaponizing of cops on my home. It was fucked up that it even happened.

@PhoenixSerenity to target you in the middle of something that horrific is just plain evil

Ms. Que Banh Mar 22

@Yza he is evil

@PhoenixSerenity i believe you completely. the signs are clear as day. you do not do this to people

Ms. Que Banh Mar 22

@Yza I don't ever do that kinda shit to anyone. I mark down the names of people who support muthafuckers like Chad because they are shitheads too.

@PhoenixSerenity they tell you they're unsafe. i'm a white trans lady, so i'm aware of the racial privilege i have, especially after i came to understand myself as transgender. suddenly so much of thepassive bigotry floating about around you becomes so obvious, so dangerous, and you need to learn to protect yourself. as a white person, going from being told the world is yours if you work for it to the realization that some people will ruin your life just for existing is real tough

@PhoenixSerenity but i appreciated it, honestly. i don't like being a marginalized person, but it gave me so much perspective on how bigotry and marginalization work. it helped me come to understand how a person who's toxic in one regard is likely terrible in others. how bigottry is ofter invisible to those unaffected, how easily others will wave it aways as "i'm sure they didn't mean that", like some simple isolated mistake. bigotry in older people is some quirky character flaw

@PhoenixSerenity how advocating for victims is secondary to percieved civility, how progression to a just world is something that we can assume will happen sometim, so we don't have to push for it, and those who do push for it are the ones causing trouble for those comfortable in the status quo, so are the real problem

i really admire black civil rights heroes, because they articulate these dynamics so well. it really helped me understand my new position in the world

@PhoenixSerenity i am endlessly disappointed is certain other white trans people who instead seem to ignore the wider revelations and only notice that transphobia is a problem. they only see what affects them and they moarn their loss of white privilege

we all need to be able to identify when people side with abusers, side with bigotry, no matter our demographic, because this shit affects us all

it is the responsibility of all to demonstrate they can be trusted, not just expect trust freely

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

This thread is one living example of the importance & commitment to always stand in your light of truth, when facing people who try to bully you, using police violence, to try to scare you. Trust that eventually, they will receive their consequences for trying to bully you into submissive silence.

He opted to use white police violence on me. I chose to use my nonviolent, expose the bully with light of my personal experience voice & my trust in karmic energy returns, on him.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

Pay close attention to folks very quick to defend this shitbag, pathological liar.

Do not count on any of those folks to be genuine, when it comes to rights of marginalized communities. It does not matter how pretty their words may be. It's foolish to trust white folks who are quick to defend/justify shitass white guys who use police violence on POC women. Hard fucking lines drawn, then. I am very open & honest about why those hard lines get drawn & why. Unlike the misogynistic, bigot fuckers who try to hide behind lies & soldier up their ignorant whites to try to shut me up. I won't be silenced by oppressive, ignorant muthafuckers from any background. You best learn that fact before bringing more whitewashed BS to me.

https://beige.party/@PhoenixSerenity/116269708490093736

Ms. Que Banh (@[email protected])

@[email protected] @[email protected] @mayintoronto All of you are now - Those guys. Gross.

beige.party

Ms. Que Banh Mar 22

Every single white coward who is waiting for a fucking admin meeting to decide if Chad is a scumbucket or not is already swimming, volunteering even, to swim with scum. Muthafucking cowards, the whole lot of them.

Ooze 𓁟 Mar 22

@PhoenixSerenity Say it sister!

Ms. Que Banh Mar 22

@Ooze no fucking apologies! Straight up, privileged cowardly scum.

Leo Schuldiner🤘🏼Mar 21

@PhoenixSerenity That's a great way to see things. One bully I had in my adolescence died in a bicycle accident on the highway a few years ago. Apparently a truck ran over him, because (I guess) he was drunk driving his bicycle... it was after a soccer match. I always wanted to talk to him "some day", to let him know how he made me feel in that time (and how he made feel others too). Sadly I never had the chance (I didn't look for the opportunity either). And you know what? His tragic death isn't a relief for me until today. Maybe the anger I feel is less intense everytime I remember all this. Yes... Now that I'm writing about it, I feel much "less angry", no doubt about it.

Thanks for your post.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

@leoschuldiner23 It's almost always better to just talk about shit we have endured & survived. I was lucky enough that life brought some former bullies back into my life at unexpected times & we had chances to make peace. Not everyone gets those opportunities so I cherish them a lot.

Leo Schuldiner🤘🏼Mar 21

@PhoenixSerenity you are so right, and you are so compassionate at the same time. Give your aggressors the opportunity to accept their apologies... that's pure gold. For you and for them. I also had the chance to forgive an ex-girlfriend who broke my heart. I always think: "This doesn't happen in real life, be grateful!" She apologized years later and I (and she) achieved peace.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

@leoschuldiner23 Sometimes, aggressors help us to develop more humanity due to their lack of that.

Leo Schuldiner🤘🏼Mar 21

@PhoenixSerenity 👏🏼

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

@leoschuldiner23 Look at the white guys still defending their wankerbutternoodle 🤡💩💩

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

I reamed out the cops who actually showed up on our front door step. They left after less than 5 minutes - once they realized it was pure BS & I was no real threat. Me, expressing that I'd be happy if John Horgan's house burned to the ground & that if I was close to death, I may consider going out with a big bang at BC legislative buildings is not a real threat. It's rageful feelings over living under neoliberal lying governments, responsible for political decisions that have ended in me & many POC to bury people we love/care about. Instance moderators should always email users & delete posts if they find them unsafe. Not fucking send racist cops to POC activists' homes!

Gray Hairs Mar 21

@PhoenixSerenity
I don't think we're supposed to talk to cops!

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

@kete Some of us very seasoned POC know how to talk to cops. It's not advised for newbies.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

@kete I have 3+ decades of experience. When I talk to cops - almost all of them end up doing walk of shame back to their cars. It's not advisable to talk to cops if you don't know all your rights & not OK being possibly arrested.

@PhoenixSerenity 🤣 ✊🏿

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

I do confess that I felt very nauseated seeing a bunch of Canadian Mastodon folks get giddy about meeting Chad at the unsafe, super ableist, Vancouver Fedicon, last year. It was full of unmasked people. It was full of ableists.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

Unlike the wankerbutternoodle, my story of how my Mom was traumatized & why I became even more ragey was due to a stranger white guy, opting to send cops to our home & then getting scared when I told everyone here - what the fucker chose to do to our family. My story has never changed from the start. I'm not a coward liar or a financial fraud, like Chad.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 22

I know some white fuckers will still stay loyal to their Chad, just like some MAGA stay loyal to Trump. Bunch of fools.

@PhoenixSerenity They really are a bunch of fools...

Ms. Que Banh Mar 22

@rlstone4dems COWARDS.

Pinchy63 🇨🇦Mar 21

@PhoenixSerenity
Wow! I’m so sorry this happened to you. He’s on another thread claiming he was only trying to help. What a POS!

Ben Rosengart Mar 21

@PhoenixSerenity @inquiline Wow.

I missed all that somehow, but I woulda believed you. Best to your mom.

Lord Kelvin Mar 21

@PhoenixSerenity
+💯 for “wankerbutternoodle”. Nice!

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

@kelvin0mql My brain comes up with things like that 😅

Lord Kelvin Mar 21

@PhoenixSerenity
Well, your brain sounds delicious.

- - A zombie, probably

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

@kelvin0mql 🤣😂

Stacey Cornelius 🇨🇦Mar 21

@PhoenixSerenity And to think I migrated b/c he didn’t include alt text in photos – but let’s be clear, that’s a signal.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

@StaceyCornelius I guarantee he is not a genuine ally for marginalized folks.

Stacey Cornelius 🇨🇦Mar 21

@PhoenixSerenity My gut told me to bail, beyond the alt text stuff.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

@StaceyCornelius Our intuition is usually spot on.

Violet Madder Mar 21

@PhoenixSerenity @StaceyCornelius

At the point where people are siccing the cops on you, that's way past intuition that's a huge flashing warning sign with fireworks on it.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

@violetmadder @StaceyCornelius A lot of white folks did not believe me. They chose to support him.

Violet Madder Mar 21

@PhoenixSerenity @StaceyCornelius

Because too often we are fools who let privilege brainwash us.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

@violetmadder @StaceyCornelius I get pretty rageful with people who support bullies over people who got bullied. It's a longtime ire, stemming from being bullied in childhood. I'm fierce as fuck in adulthood, when anyone tries to bully me(or others around me). I will always defend others, if it's not me under unjust attacks.

AnnieBuddy Mar 22

@PhoenixSerenity @violetmadder @StaceyCornelius

I have no idea how I missed all of this. When did it happen?

Ms. Que Banh Mar 22

@AnnieBuddy @violetmadder @StaceyCornelius Shortly after my Dad died in 2023. Fucking white scumbuckets.

AnnieBuddy Mar 22

@PhoenixSerenity @violetmadder @StaceyCornelius

I am sorry you went through that, especially when you were grieving.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 22

@AnnieBuddy @violetmadder @StaceyCornelius He knew I was grieving & he still sent cops to our home.
Seriously, fuck every single person who supports Chad.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 22

@AnnieBuddy @violetmadder @StaceyCornelius Chad lied back then & keeps lying to this very day. Fuck him & every single person who still supports that fucker.

Bryan L. Fordham Mar 21

@PhoenixSerenity I am sorry you’ve had to deal with that.

But I must also say wankerbutternoodle is a top tier insult

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

@Bfordham It's my personal insult but if others enjoy it, use it freely, anywhere you deem appropriate ✌️
I don't back down to bullies. I post about my experiences because that's my personal right. Fuck their feelings, when their BS results in harsh consequences because they should have treated me(and others) better, when they had ample opportunities to do so.

Fishercat Mar 21

@Bfordham @PhoenixSerenity

This.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 21

@Fishercat @Bfordham Some wankers are really slippery, lying worms & they are called wankerbutternoodles.

Irene (she/they, Sir/Mr.)Mar 21

@PhoenixSerenity **scribbling notes for future reference** wankerbutternoodle...

@PhoenixSerenity

I didn't hear about this drama before but wow, fuck that wankerbutternoodle! He's getting what's been coming to him

Ms. Que Banh Mar 22

@adamsaidsomething He deserves full fucking HELLFIRES for what he chose to do to my family.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 22

@adamsaidsomething Chad previously claimed to not have any responsibility with sending any cops or anyone else to our family home. He has lied about it all. He sent cops to my house. I never lied about it. Chad has continually lied about it all.

disorderlyf Mar 22

@PhoenixSerenity Dodged a bullet by not going with mstdn.ca when I decided to move to a new instance. This Chad guy sounds like a piece of shit.

Ms. Que Banh Mar 22

@disorderlyf You dodged a missile.