Because mastodon is like a 99% male audience, I will say this: if you have an aging mother you are in relationship with and care about, do NOT make her go through medical stuff alone. I am skilled & mean enough to fight through medical stuff and even so you would not believe how bad it is. Just accept that you cannot imagine.
I talk to a lot of people's aging moms and they are abandoned & alone even in nice families. I don't care how awkward it is, you have to try to ask them about it.
Our moms are suffering because no one cares and they aren't telling anyone. They're getting diagnoses 15 years late, they're being bullied about medications, they're silent about what they're going through.
The difference between the younger women and the older women in the patient groups I'm in is horrific. I have listened to many, many people's moms describe years of suffering that could've been prevented. I am not trying to lay on any guilt. I'm just saying a little bit could go a long way.
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Playing in mud is good for us!!!!
If I were there I would sing Rick Charette's song, "I Love Mud" to her-
Chorus:
"Mud, mud, I love mud!
I'm absolutely, positively wild about mud.
I can't go around it. I've got to go through it.
Beautiful, fabulous, super duper mud."
I have loved that song for decades, and sing the chorus at every opportunity. Your post reminds me there are probably mud puddles waiting for me at the dump. They often have cool rocks hiding on them.
Mud luscious and puddle wonderful-what is that from???? Yhink, think, think
Oh, yes! Found it!!!! e e. cummings💚
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