I think the reason the hobbies TikTok has "ruined" are coloring and books is that those are done mostly by women and women can't do anything without being judged. "You don't need to buy 120 alcohol markers" god forbid a woman do anything.
@itzyg
Was about to ask if the deference is “she”, having seen the middle post first.
I will stop myself from going on a “fucking neoliberal mysoginists” rant.