geekysteven
If a man is saying “sex is for procreation, not pleasure” it's a guarantee he can't provide the second option.
Mar 16 at 1:02pmWeb
Show threadMx. Dudula the DudMar 16
@geekysteven "In, Out. Repeat if necessary."
Show threadcognitively accessible mathMar 16
@geekysteven makes me wonder if they miss the joy part entirely
Show threadgeekystevenMar 16
@geonz not for themselves, probably
Show threadcognitively accessible mathMar 16
@geekysteven
the humble joy of sharing is something ... I think it requires learning trust at a young age. If you were imbued with "don't trust anybody! They'll take your stuff!" .... sometimes that can be broken. Sometimes.
Show threadHam on WryMar 16

@geekysteven

👆This all day long.

Show threadAmorpheusMar 16

@geekysteven I know a lot of women who struggle with pleasure from vaginal penetration, which primary consequence is actually procreation, for me at least. Made me wonder at what exact definition of sex you are aiming here.

For me there is sex and then there is affection, passion, warmth, cuddling, caressing, kissing and uncountable other forms of sensory intimacy.

I enjoy the latter one much more.

Show threadgeekystevenMar 16
@Amorpheus I use a broad definition of sex that encompasses all the kinda of stuff you'd do for pleasure. If a partner isn't getting something out of PIV, bare minimum would be to see if there's something else that gets them going.
Show threadJust Tom... 🐁Mar 16
@geekysteven - Ouch - but likely true!
Show threadtend2wobbleMar 16
@geekysteven He’s a ‘quick-shooter.’