Sammy Arson representing the hard left :3
yeah sex is great and all but have you ever just cuddled up and chatted about random shit and felt loved and listened to and seen?
Mar 9 at 2:49pmWeb
Show threadSaphira Lohikäärmekettunen  🚫 KubeCon EuropeMar 9
@theresnotime and understood
Show threadjulia 🔜 EH23Mar 9
@theresnotime need honestly
Show threadLinkyKatsumiVTMar 9
@theresnotime Yes 
Show threadraven // KittenMar 9
@theresnotime such a nice feeling when coexisting with someone just works, without much effort needed or energy being drained, understanding each other and seeing time fly by … usually only stopping because of outside factors (capitalism, the door bell, need for food, …) 
Show threadSammy Arson representing the hard left :3Mar 9
@nekorvidae absolutely this 🥺 I think "just" coexisting is how I show affection the best, because it's actually quite rare for me to feel comfy enough to just exist around someone
Show threadraven // KittenMar 9

@theresnotime yes, mew … seems to be rather rare for me, too, but being comfy enough is less of an issue, compared to "everything collapses in unpleasant silence after half an hour" 

there are those few special beings with whom existing is nearly effortless 
who i can trust to be okay with it.

Show threadRachelMar 9
@nekorvidae @theresnotime Finding those we be safe and comfortable with as ourselves, is a truly wonderful gift.
Show threadmstarMar 9
@theresnotime no, sadly. To either (not that I care about the first one at all as of right now and for the foreseeable future)
Show threadClarissa | making Enigma HeartMar 9
@theresnotime the best
Show threadraineMar 9
@theresnotime no
Show threadGeoffreyWinnMar 9
@theresnotime No, I can’t remember the last time a person let me touch them.
Show threadOrion Ussner kidderMar 9

@theresnotime

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Show threadgkrnoursMar 9
@theresnotime goal
Show threadSenharaMar 9
@theresnotime yeah I actually got to do this fairly recently, it's a wonderful feeling. kinda makes me feel sad that most of the time at home I feel really alone
Show threadAmorpheusMar 9
@theresnotime Silence sometimes is the most comforting company. My cat rarely wants to talk to me while still enjoying my warmth and presence.
Show threadEm & future cats 🇺🇦🐈🏳️‍🌈Mar 9
@theresnotime sometimes this is the most important thing that I can have from a relationship 🩷… granted, my husband is a very quiet person, but he does like to talk about things. And this is what makes me feel loved and like I belong in the same room 🩷
We need to remind ourselves of this, because sometimes the small things mean the most 🩷
Show threadEm & future cats 🇺🇦🐈🏳️‍🌈Mar 9
@theresnotime and yes… sometimes just sitting quietly together is more than enough 💖
(I know that he especially likes it that way 😹)
Show threadGregMar 9
@theresnotime This. THIS. A thousand times this.
Show threadJoe BeamMar 9
@theresnotime
Yes
Show threadAxel GutmannMar 9
@theresnotime Of course. Being married 38 years without that would be hell.
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Sammy Arson with the awful opinions :3 (@[email protected])

yeah sex is great and all but have you ever just cuddled up and chatted about random shit and felt loved and listened to and seen?

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Show threadHunter x Hunter ThompsonMar 9
@theresnotime not really
Show threadLizzie---Mar 9
@theresnotime That IS sex, if you ask me
Show threadTobias 🌒🌕🌘Mar 9
@theresnotime I miss that more than sex.
Show threadalsvhaMar 10
@theresnotime no.
Show threadorioleMar 10
@theresnotime Why not both?
Show threadE. Bound MisfitMar 10
@theresnotime You mean foreplay?
Show threadrefraction Mar 10
@theresnotime yeah
Show threadVronimus GeisterschlossMar 10
@theresnotime Yes 10 years ago
Show threadTeresa 🏳️‍⚧️Mar 10
@theresnotime I’d kill for that at this point. 😔
Show threadOblomovMar 10
@theresnotime and the best part? With the right person(s) you can do both!
Show threadDerGinkoMar 10
@theresnotime @enbypirate yes, just five minutes ago 💕
Show threadLady Laura Mar 10
@theresnotime yes 
Show threadpomaMar 11
@theresnotime yeah it's called aftercare! that's what the sex is for...right
Show threadAroop RoelofsMar 11
@theresnotime I have... And then she left me. :')
Show threadsteph Mar 12
@theresnotime no 
Show thread🌈☔🌦️🍄🌱🍉6d ago
@theresnotime     to all the lonely people in this thread.