I'd like to see those FEPs happen. As long as you're not sharing your private signing key.
The option is there to be your own gatekeeper
Can you afford to buy a domain name? How about an SSL certificate? Both of the financial barriers involves paying rent to some parasite who doesn't even do anything. Do you have a computer that can run 24/7, with an always available network? Finally do you have some hours to learn how to set everything up?
I'd love more people to be self-hosted, but as you just said, servers are not a bad idea. If we're all self-hosted, the network won't work as well. And there isn't much of a choice for many people, who only have a phone on a flaky network at best.
Huh?
Deniability is where you're delivering people's messages, but you can't look inside them to see what they are. When you can do that, governments can (and will) force you to spy on people, convicting you with their crime if you refuse. Because clearly you're complicit, since you're legally liable for every message that has illegal words in it.
Think like the post office, where they're required to not read your letters. Compare with a US prison, where they get to read and creatively edit any letters you try to send.
If I was making a network, I'd have it so servers or supernodes only saw encrypted messages. To decrypt them, they'd have to be participating in whatever conversation was going on. Just to save them from getting in trouble when I say something stupid like "I want to kill the Pres—" (screeching tires from black van)
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