@gknauss Very thoughtful and elegant. Thanks for writing.
In the back of my head, I kept thinking--no, you don't have to lose your identity because it has been usurped by capitalists. You'll always be the same person that enjoys crafting, puzzling, expressing, and refining...
If the job description of software engineering is changing to something else, then maybe they should change the title too... Your post alludes to "product manager", and that sort of seems to fit. After all, the skill of prompting and executing workflows resembles product management (or middle management) much more than "programming" or "engineering."
That does mean that "software engineering" gets lumped into the category of artist, writer, crafter... and while those categories are often at odds with industry, it's still not bad company to be in.