Hi Everyone!

First, a huge thank you for the incredibly warm welcome to the Fediverse. The kindness from this community has been overwhelming, and such a contrast to the platforms I've left behind.

Now, I've gone down a total rabbit hole investigating more ethical tech. I've just realised that if I'm deleting Meta from my life, WhatsApp should probably go too. I'd love to know what you think are the best alternatives. Signal? Matrix/Element?

#Privacy #DeleteMeta #WhatsApp

@sophiekaz Hi! I use Signal, but it is an uphill struggle to get family members etc. on board.
@twoowls73 thank you! I thought convincing everyone to switch would be the biggest drawback, but honestly I'm starting to see it as part of the mission. One conversation at a time :)

@sophiekaz @twoowls73

As long as the "network effect" and convenience dominate, it will be a challenge to get family and friends to even install a better choice while still having their current. I see the challenge as marathon, not a sprint.

The biggest hurdle is for many to connect the negative consequences - in particular surveillance profiling - resulting from those business models.

Personally I focus on using for real things with those who do try. Found that is the most rewarding for all.

@sophiekaz @twoowls73

One family or friends gathering at a time: get whole groups to change on the spot, then continue using the Signal group for everything so that it becomes the main channel.

@twoowls73 @sophiekaz
I've gotten my family members to switch, as well as a couple friends. They still use WhatsApp but at least they use Signal to chat with me so it's a start.
@twoowls73 @sophiekaz Here in Canada, shortly after January 21st last year, when Trump was inaugurated and all talk was 51at state, 20 people in my friends and family network agreed in one day to immediately drop WhatsApp and move to Signal. It's not that hard.
@twoowls73 @sophiekaz I agree! I tried to get my brother and his family to leave FB messenger but his response is "it's pretty integrated into Taiwain society" (he lives in Taiwan) so it's a non starter sadly.

@sophiekaz The security experts I trust all recommend Signal.

One of them pointed to this guide for beginners: https://freedom.press/digisec/blog/signal-beginners/

Signal, the secure messaging app: A guide for beginners

Also available in Spanish.

Freedom of the Press
@jeridansky thank you! That's really helpful. I'll check out the guide :)
@jeridansky @sophiekaz Also worth mentioning https://delta.chat which is decentralized.
Delta Chat: Delta Chat, decentralized secure messenger

Delta Chat is a decentralized and secure messenger app πŸ’¬ Reliable instant messaging with multi-profile and multi-device support ⚑️ Sign up to secure and interoperable chatmail relays πŸ₯³ Interactive ...

@dgoldsmith @jeridansky thank you so much - it's next on my list to try πŸ˜ƒ

@sophiekaz For family and small groups messaging, Signal.

For unencrypted community chat, Matrix works well enough.

There are some interesting peer to peer options in the works too, such as Veilid, but I've not actually used those...

@adrinux thank you - that's a really valuable distinction. Will look into it further.

@sophiekaz

From a prior poster on this feed. I found it useful and shared it with my friends...

#Fedi #Fediverse

@nickrauchen your poster is misleading, it says "join the fediverse" and then you recommend Signal, a centralized service, that is not federated in any way, please instead recommend something that is federated like #DeltaChat and/or #xmpp

@adbenitez

I defer to you. I recently exited the #MacOS world to #Linux and this is one area I am completely confused about.

Problem with any alternatives on the laptop/desktop is... there is no easy/direct way to use SMS and related protocols... you have to be on a phone system to participate unless you use Apple, Meta, Goog, etc. (Again as far as I can tell.) There used to be email to text gateways, but those have been shut down by the major tele-carriers.

So I do much less texting. Slows me down a bit socially, but my friends are learning to look for me on email instead.

@nickrauchen Delta Chat is a perfect fit for you then, it doesn't require a phone at all, and on top of that, you can also configure a classic email account in it and use it as an email client but with a whatsapp-like chat interface to chat over email easily (but often email providers make it super hard to use their service with 3rd party clients so I recommend you to try the normal experience first without using it as email client)

@adbenitez

Looking into it now. Had to talk to the Delta Airlines chatbot first. πŸ˜‰

Referring to a relevant #xkcd panel on their main page gave them instant cred.

Will see how far I can get. Thanks!

@adbenitez
I'm curious, why not Matrix?
@nickrauchen

@flord @adbenitez

Have not heard of it. Has not popped up in my searchs.

@sophiekaz you will have better chances with signal for your close relationships. That's the best compromise of user experience and safety.

@delta has more and more traction, and does not require a phone number so great for children.

Matrix is more for online communities, think like slack or discord.

Install all for months first, remove the useless ones after. Do your tests

My goto reference is @privacyguides

@sophiekaz I am only familiar with Signal, but it is thoroughly modern and is secure as it getsπŸ”’. And Meredith Whittaker - the president of the Signal Foundation - represents the vanguard of ethical tech πŸ’ͺ!

https://youtu.be/Oa3ccm-eF2w?si=XamqMjz_TPA2L2Uq

Meredith Whittaker

YouTube
@sophiekaz I would second @Delta and @arcanechat, my experience is these have been so easy to use and based on email, which is a great use of long standing technology we're all familiar with.

@sophiekaz

Delta for instant messaging (instead of WhatsApp, Signal, Snapchat, iMessage). Matrix (Element, FluffyChat) for larger groups, work, associations etc.

https://delta.chat/en/download

@delta #DeltaChat

@sophiekaz Apple Messages where possible; Signal where necessary. Signal is very good. There are no other options on the table here; WhatsApp, WeChat are a hard no-go from me. πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ
@tantramar totally agree on the hard no to WhatsApp and WeChat. I'm not in the Apple ecosystem myself, however. I'm trialling Signal so far and it seems good!
@sophiekaz I've gotten quite a few of my friends to use Signal now. Family is an uphill battle. I got sister and mother to use Telegram to communicate with me a few years back (they still use whatsapp for all of their friends and colleagues 😬) and now I feel bad for being a "well actually" guy to make them use Signal instead 🀣
@DrJLecter πŸ˜„ Worth it though. And at least you're the kind of "well actually" guy who's looking out for them!
@sophiekaz Signal for general connections to friends. DeltaChat to ad hoc groups if not all is on Signal. DeltaChat is ultra simpel and easy onboarding. I'm s great fan of DeltaChat.
@sindum thank you so much - I'll definitely investigate this. I hadn't thought of using two apps in conjunction, but that might be a good solution πŸ˜ƒ
@raVeN thank you for the recommendation! I'm looking into all of them - really appreciate it πŸ‘
@sophiekaz - not sure if it is the best - but I have tried to get people migrated to Telegram in my circles
@stevejohnson42 interesting, thank you! I'm looking into it πŸ˜ƒ

@sophiekaz

+1 for Signal. It's almost certainly the most secure, and is going from strength to strength. Really quite reliable.

Doubtless I was lucky, but the 3-4 groups I needed to move were very happy to do so if someone else set it up.

@BorisBarbour sounds great and I'm so glad that it's worked out well for your groups - thank you for the recommendation πŸ˜ƒ
@BorisBarbour @sophiekaz also Delta Chat!
@gproenca @BorisBarbour thank you! I'm trialling is currently - looks great so far :)
Hi @sophiekaz
Look into #deltachat !!
https://delta.chat/en/download
Best option IMHO !!!!
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@gertvk thank you so much! I've had a couple of other recommendations for this too, so I'll definitely try it out! Really appreciate the recommendation :)

@sophiekaz I recommend you Delta Chat, it has a super easy onboarding! easier than WhatsApp, Signal etc. no phone number or anything required for registration, just set a name and go

it also has in-chat mini-apps and tools like shopping lists, collaborative notepads, mini-games etc.

it is decentralized, open source and it also empowers you with multi-homing (and easy migration of servers without losing your profile and chats)

it is ideal for family and friends

@adbenitez this sounds really promising, especially the no phone number requirement! I've been looking for something safe for my daughters to use, so that's a big plus. The mini-apps and shopping lists sound fun too. Thanks for the recommendation, I'm going to look into it!
@sophiekaz let me know how it well 😁

@sophiekaz

If I didn't know #deltachat I would have recommended signal, but since I discovered a decentralized messaging app that works just the same I don't see any good reasons to recommend signal now... Signal uses servers of (and therefore gives money to) amazon, microsoft, etc.

I made my family move from telegram/whatsapp to signal a few years ago.
I'm now planning to convince them to move to deltachat :)

@raphm oh interesting, I haven't heard of DeltaChat before! I'll check it out. Getting a whole family to switch messaging apps is no small feat, so good luck with round two! πŸ˜„
@raphm @sophiekaz I told my friends about Delta Chat and they refused to get it because, "You just made us switch to Signal." I made them switch to Signal ten years ago.
@ben @raphm Ten years of loyalty to your last pick though, that's impressive!!

Matrix would be my choice. It allows calls - which Deltachat does not.

However - the sign-up process for Matrix is a bit complicated.