Fellow 'Fediversers,' what keeps you hanging on here despite the "FV" being a work-in-progress, with all its built-in, various bumps & difficulties to experience along the way?

“Sometimes there’s a man… I won’t say a “hero,” because what’s a hero? But sometimes there’s a man who… well, he’s the man for his time and place!” – Sam Elliot (the Stranger) from the glorious The Big Lebowski

You know that classic quote about standing on the shoulders of giants (and pioneers)? Honestly, in so many ways, that’s how I truly feel about the good ol’ Fediverse.

So, to sum up– who are YOUR heroes here, and what does keep you hanging on here, baby..?

EDIT: For people wondering about what kinds of ‘bumps & difficulties’ I’ve personally experienced, here’s a tiny sampler:

https://piefed.social/post/1431056#comment_8685458

The people. Gotten to know a lotta lovely people here. Like you! Also the Lemmy community as a whole is nice. It’s also a small cozy place.
Good to see you here!
I’m not here despite what it is, I’m here because of what it is.
I can do no better than to second this sentiment.
I’d love to third it, but it would start to look like a reddit thread
was going to write something but this sums up what I wanted to say better than I could say it. I also quite like it as it is. It can stay like this forever for my tastes. I don’t want it improved to the level that im seeking something else.

It’s good enough to keep me interested.

It’s not good enough to replace Reddit yet, in the sense that I’m still active on Reddit. But there is enough worthwhile content here that I can check in each day and find some stuff that I enjoy. And that’s enough to give me a reason to keep coming back.

The people here, and the vibe, is nicer. It’s like reddit was 15 years ago. Reddit has just gotten worse over the years as it became more popular, and especially after went public. Many subreddits are plagued with engagement bots that ping you with lame questions to get you to respond. Post a comment even slightly controversial and you get reported and banned, even if it wasn’t malicious. I just got tired of the shit show. I do miss the more robust traffic for niche subjects that reddit has, but not enough for me to go back.
it has accelerated this year alone, right when trumps started enacting his plans, plus MUSK is interfering with reddit. significant ban waves went after non-propaganda spamming that usually arnt the problem(of and link accounts), then it started banning people in large numbers, plus all thier old accounts were hit, and shadowbans have increased so much.

The app is decent.

That’s honestly 90% of it. If Reddit hadn’t programmed their app and mobile website with their feet, I’d probably still be over there.

Use free app redreader or payed app relay for reddit 2 bucks a month

On PC Reddit enhancement suite is your friend…

The other day I was using incognito and went to Reddit what an eyesore so many promoted threads…my lord

Oh I don’t even mind the algorithm. It’s just so full of bugs.

I like this place because it’s a work in progress and because of all its perceived imperfections.

I’m an old GenXer who remembers AOL chat rooms and Usenet. Each featured a small cluster of folks you’d talk with each day and thought of as friends. Reddit offered that kind of connection once, but now it’s become a monolith that believes its own hype. Not to mention the infestation of bots and trolls that no one cares enough to do anything about because engagement is engagement.

I’m new here so I’m still learning my way around but I like this way better. I have more control over what and who I see, the memes are fresher, and the communities feel more human.

FWIW, I’m GenX myself, BBS’s all the way! :D

I miss the old forums.

The peak of the internet.

They had their day, and I enjoyed them, but one thing I love about the Fediverse experience (patterned after Reddit of course), is that one can sample and subscribe to a super amount of divergent sources, and have it all pulled together in to one stream.

Outside of specialty forums, plus the pleasure of hanging out with online chums for years at a time, I’d argue that this method is in fact more useful and generally superior.

I miss the hanging out with the same online mates.

It occured to me when I quit Reddit that I hadn’t made a single friend on there in 10 years but made loads on the forums I used to frequent.

Haha, same. *sweat emoji*

I find the FV better in that regard though, perhaps because of the smaller userbase. So maybe size plays a role in these things.

Same age and feelings.
That’s been the whole Internet for a good chunk of my life. This feels more comfortable to me than slick corporate sites.
Yeah, being terminally online on my 4th decade has taught me that the polish usually comes with caveats, such as a ™️
I don’t accept the premise of the question.
Excellent, and well done.
Your reward is in the mail.
What’s wrong with the Fediverse exactly?
Yeah. I don't feel like I'm suffering for being on here rather than somewhere else

I’m on a Windows PC browsing with Firefox. How long you got to talk technical issues? This place is a Bulgarian clusterfuck. If this was a serious social media platform looking at an IPO, it would be in alpha.

Anyway, more right here than wrong for me. Been in tech for 30-years, handled Win 3.1, BASIC in the 80s, I can live with it. But it’s a technical mess.

No government or corporation gives a shit about us, no bots!

I don’t recall saying something was “WRONG,” but as with all such things, there will be issues of nuance.

So I’ve added a tiny bit more in the OP.

I enjoy the discourse and the memes here more than anywhere else in the internet
Wow. oO
Wow?

I mean… it just felt like high praise, indeed.

Makes me feel like… dang… somehow, we’re on the right track! <3

I think for me its about being around fellow travelers. I’ve been on the internet for a while. Started commenting forums, then in political threads via craigslist. Then fark, digg, reddit. Users and commenters made those places, and when one went to shit, we just moved along to the next.

I have to say that I think I truly see the fediverse as a place to build a home. It meets my values where they are, and I don’t have to make compromises.

And I think my fellow travelers would agree, if this place goes to shit, we’ll vote with our feet.

The issues get fixed, conversation happens, and there is content worth engaging in without feeling like an endless trap of doomscrolling.

I can share stories of my experience as an immigrant and almost never get a “go back to your country” comment.

Like if you tried that on reddit, jeez, they’ll dig up that one comment you made against the administration in power and send you death threats and try to get the authorities to swat me. Also, they ban proxies, so all they have to do is make a false accusation and trick reddit admins to revealing IP to authorities. I use Tor on Lemmy, and, while its not foulproof, its another barrier to add more effort, and usually law enforcement is lazy and aren’t gonna do much effort for a “lol donnie is so dumb” comment.

Interactions feel genuine. I like talking to people here.

Can confirm. I am a human and I love human things such as… um… breathing air, and um…

Human Music

It is a great day to be a human, fellow human!

Human Music

YouTube
I humbly confess I never watched that show

one of those things that’s quite funny and high production value but the fandom is largely obnoxious and some of the creators are jerks

it’s also not everyone’s style of humor. give it a shot sometime and see if it resonates though!

At first I also refused to watch since its animated and I thought it was childish, but then I learned that there are like a lot of dirty stuff and supposedly for adults, so, given how popular it became, I just had to watch it.

And its worth it. Yes, its weird af and I always feel so confused and something things just makes zero sense, but some stories are interesting. Never really got bored of any of it (although some aren’t really that great for a re-watch IMO).

It can be brilliant, and I find it rare that it’s any less than very good. It plays with scifi tropes (any and all tropes really), is very self-aware… I am sure it stands to be criticized, but I personally love the show. Apart from season 5, of course
I love that with shows anymore there’s always a pariah season, lol. Maybe I’ll catch it on tv one day.
Totallynotrobots
Because it is small enough.
I'm a fan of Mbin, I like using it and enjoy being here.
I’m here because fuck Reddit and the US.

Just to be clear, what happened?

Why did we evidently lose your trust, if I may ask?

Trump threatened our countries sovereignty.
It’s strange to think that this only narrows it down a bit, lol. But yea, certainly fuck that
Lol you are asking as if you don’t know the answer
Sorry, my telepathy couldn’t overcome your background noise.
Buddy you gotta be living in a cave or delusional or in denial if you don’t know what your countries reputation is and why

Buddy, that’s an hilarious leap to make right there, in which I’ve talked about this stuff all over the place, already. Oh! But maybe you do require an apology? Right so, mate:

SO SORRY I FORGOT ABOUT THE ORANGEY-SPECIFIC BEE-ESS SPECIFICALLY DIRECTED TOWARDS CANADA THOUGH, BUDDY!

The relevant point being that that’s already been spewed and sprayed almost everywhere, such that I didn’t automatically remember CA’s specific beef.

I know, I know… I’m clearly a terrible person.

*sheesh!*

Pfft

I love the FV. No ads. No algorithm.

And that it requires a little effort means fewer dumbass jerks around.