The myth: if you haven’t made it by 30, you’re finished.

The truth: you still have decades to do your best work.

https://www.joanwestenberg.com/p/remember-kurt-vonnegut-was-47

Remember: Kurt Vonnegut was 47

The Long Apprenticeship

Westenberg.
@Daojoan also, pick your own definition of "make it".
It doesn't have to include broad public acclaim, it could be "have a good stable life and take care of the people around me".
@shapr @Daojoan So true. When I lived past 30 I felt like I ‘made it’.
@Grovewest @shapr @Daojoan My grandfather always said he was grateful for every day over 50.
@Daojoan Sheri Tepper was 54 when she published her first novel. Anne Leckie was 47.

@a_cubed @Daojoan R. A. Lafferty started writing at 45 because his doctor told him he had to stop drinking.

Emily Dickinson didn't really 'fail', she chose not to publish. She had friends in literary world who wanted her to publish more, but she was not really into it.

@Daojoan my professor would tell me ‘a young architect is in their 50s’

@Daojoan

I was an unsuccessful lawyer turning to programming when I was 35. I love it now (many years later). The myth is absolute nonsense. The myth behind myth is that unless you are the best you are failure is also nonsense.

Saint Anselm of Cantebury was sixty, when he decided (in the eleventh century!) to start learning Greek to read Plato.

If you find yourself in the wrong hole, it is never too late to stop digging. Do what you like, and hopefully you make enough to have a living.

@Daojoan

Kurt Vonnegut was 47

@Daojoan My accounts were permanently in the negative until the mid-40s.