Hey.
Hey, you.
Yeah, you. The person reading this. You, specifically.
Be messier and weirder. Fuck up more. And cut people a break when they're messy and weird and fuck up, if you can.
Queerness is about being messy.
Hey.
Hey, you.
Yeah, you. The person reading this. You, specifically.
Be messier and weirder. Fuck up more. And cut people a break when they're messy and weird and fuck up, if you can.
Queerness is about being messy.
Oh, also, since I've got you here:
That weird sex thing you're super ashamed of, and have never told a soul that you're into?
Like half of your friends are into it too, and are just as scared of saying anything. You could be having an interesting conversation with them right now.
Just sayin'.
It might be a quarter. But statistically, from what the research says about kink? Unless you're a shut-in, *someone* you're friends with is into it, pretty much guaranteed.
Shame sucks. Sure, talk in private, but it's just sex. It's not that big a deal.
Signed: a gal who's ace-spectrum.
@Impossible_PhD Every time I start talking about glue fetish in a new group of kinksters, there's always someone in the chat who gets turned on by it when they've never thought about it before.
Every.
Time.
I'm good at getting my fetish *stuck* in your mind. 😈
@h3mmy @Impossible_PhD I'm sure you'll come to love being sticky as much as I do once things have had some time to *cure* and *bond*~
( 🎨 @Venerabela )
@dragonarchitect @h3mmy @Venerabela I'm sorry, and I stg that I'm not trying to fuck your yum, it's just that my time makes "sticky" to be one of the most viscerally "nope" feelings in existence to me.
Have fun though!
@dragonarchitect @h3mmy @Venerabela ugh, tism not time and yuck, not fuck. Zoe needs to wake up before she posts.
Yeah, texturally I'm at the far opposite end of the spectrum: maximum smooth, please. I can sorta get where you're coming from just going uno reverse on what I like, so the attraction makes a basic amount of sense to me.
YKINMKBYKIOK and all that.
@Impossible_PhD Totally fair. Glue isn't really my thing because of texture issues. My first introduction to sticky things was a candy cane and it sealed pages of a book I liked when I was in preschool. I avoided sticky things like the plague because I liked my books too much. Elmer's glue had the "let it dry and peel it off " appeal. Etc
From a texture standpoint I just imagine everything trying to stick to me and it's frustrating. And I can basically smell the industrial foul smell I associate with that type of sticky.
Now, if it was more like smooth slimy goop, that was slippery until you held still against someone or something for too long, I can see how that could be appealing. I interact with many people who enjoy being restricted and snared but have texture sensitivities, a couple of them wouldn't mind the idea of being sealed into comfortable position.
@h3mmy @dragonarchitect @Venerabela Yeah, the only glue I'll use is super glue or stick glue, (unless I'm woodworking, and for that, out come the nitrile gloves) because super glue goes rock hard fast and stops being sticky, and stick glue stays put and not-on-my-hands.
I dunno, when I feel sticky, it's like an almost visceral reaction to go wash for me.
@Impossible_PhD @h3mmy Oh, yeah, I'm kinda particular about my sticky preferences as well. If my hands are a bit icky from not having been washed in a while I've GOT to go wash them because they feel icky. 😖
Food-based sticky also makes me feel icky, too.
But glue sticky is what hits that sensational sweet spot for me. 🥰
@dragonarchitect @Impossible_PhD
*Takes notes*
This is interesting. I might end up having further questions at some point in the future if that's okay? I like understanding what people like about different textures and sensations, and what words people use to describe them. It is very enlightening.