My son (16) and I are going on this (amazing!) trip together so I may be a bit difficult to reach for the next week or so, apologies https://www.sojournproject.org
@codinghorror I made a point of visiting his gravesite at Arlington and putting a penny on top of the tombstone.
Of all the ones that I wanted to visit, his was number one for me. More than my great uncle's plot. Though I did eventually find that one as well.
"Not that one”
Not much, no. There's not really any good deeds that can outweigh drilling holes in the heads of living men and pouring acid in.
That's like double the work.