omg YES!! 🎯
@JohannaMakesGames @skeletor
Good question!
I am not so sure about the "unconcious malice" part, though I guess you never know what truly goes on in someone's head 🤷🏽♂️
I can't tell others what to do, but I just don't take to heart and mind my way, the kind of "Forgive but don't forget" :)
It's hard to talk in general terms without addressing a specific circumstance though 😆
Obviously some things are too hard to just forgive 🤷🏽♂️
If they know you, and say shit that hurts you, they're doing it deliberately. If they know you, and say or do shit that scares you, they're doing it deliberately.
Fuck benefit of the doubt. Protect yourselves!
(I sadly have experience with disentangling myself and others from dangerous people, if you need help you can talk to me and I'll do what I can. You're not alone.)