I hesitate to add to the atmosphere of dread, but Meta's increasingly unfettered acceleration of the kinds of messages that precede genocides is so alarming.

And—how to say this… Avoiding Meta platforms doesn't confer a get-out-of-atrocities-free card. This is why I'm so focused on the need to build broadly appealing, maximally accessible alternative platforms.

I understand, "It's good if the fediverse stays niche," but that's a solution for a tiny number of people.

"People should just think more critically about technology" is not a solution. "Normies just love their evil dopamine and dumb celebs, let them suffer" is not a solution.

"I don't believe people when they say it's unpleasant or confusing because it's not for me" is not a solution.

"But Threads!" is not a solution.

The window for making fedi a robust and substantial part of an alternative pluriverse of networks is not going to be open forever, I don't think.

I am hopeful about the changes at Mastodon. I think IFTAS is doing absolutely crucial work with very little support. I've come around on bridging, as wildly imperfect as it is, as a stop-loss and a way of keeping fedi more viable for more people who are willing to accept the (nebulous) trade-offs.

But also I love the federated model and I want it to be a real option for more people in more places, so it's discouraging to keep hitting "eh screw the normies" when the societal risks are so high.

I wouldn't have posted this knowing I wouldn't be around to look at replies but I have to get offline now for unexpected reasons, so any responses will be slow/in a few days.

The point was, "Niche alternatives will not prevent societal damage wrought by giant corporate platforms knowingly accelerating the worst things humans do to each other, and alt-network advocates better grapple with that *right now*." The rest is commentary.

@kissane I don't follow. Individual instances are niche. The fediverse, by definition, is not. Not that this fact necessarily helps much on its own!
@heydon Niche as in about a million people and shrinking vs. billions of people. If we want society-level effects, we have to be providing better options for the big groups as well. (Currently Bluesky is getting most of the Meta-leavers, and I wish fedi could offer its real benefits to more of them.)
@kissane Agreed. I don't see no issue in enjoying niche open tools and such, and being seen as a geek/activist by friends and family that find all this way too complicated. But we have to listen to them when they say "it's too complicated", understand precisely why they don't use these tools, and work hard towards a better visibility and understanding both ways. Cause it's worth it, but there's a lot of work to be done to make it happen. And if we fail, the Internet we love may be kind of done.

@kissane

The trouble is that it is precisely those "broadly appealing, maximally accessible alternative platforms" that are required for spreading messages that precede, e.g., genocide.

There is simply no way how one could invite merely potential victims, and keep perpetrators and their enablers (who start the fire by telling people to not be "snowflakes", those who "won't be silenced by the woke", etc.) out.

I get why one would desire that, but the Fediverse of today rather resembles a Third Reich basement where the persecuted are hiding. Planting signs everywhere to show the "way to the nearest shelter for potential victims of the Nazis" does not look like a reasonable idea, to me.

The first who try to hide are the most vulnerable. Only then, the party members who once thought they'd be safe if they obeyed and looked away, realize that they'll be next.

And they don't learn. They don't show solidarity. They're entering the shelter, loudly complaining why the shelter does not offer all the amenities of the flat they were just running out of, in panic.

I believe that the existence of many different house rules is an advantage of the Fediverse, not a disadvantage. IFTAS is walking a very thin line here. Being a community where moderators exchange experiences and consent on what they feel they can consent on: fine. Becoming an outsourced moderation center that ultimately mandates what is ok, on every instance: not fine.

@katzenberger I don't do super-long comments so I will point you here for my thoughts on refuge and broad connection: https://www.wrecka.ge/against-the-dark-forest/

"Becoming an outsourced moderation center that ultimately mandates what is ok, on every instance: not fine." This isn't what IFTAS does or has ever done. People project so much onto a tiny org building out the tooling moderators have requested, and although scrutiny is essential, I think it would be helpful to avoid making up scenarios from whole cloth.

Against the dark forest

The complex of ideas I’m going to call the Dark Internet Forest emerges from mostly insidery tech thinking, but from multiple directions.

wreckage/salvage
@kissane We really need to talk someday :)
(and probably sooner than later)
@kissane there's been a lot of criticism against the IFTAS though – it's not all "screw the normies", there's the whole thing about the proximity to the self-proclaimed moderation authorities that push comically terrible blocklists that insist that every single trans/queer instance is somehow racist

@valpackett So two things here—one, my mention of IFTAS is a sidenote about many things that could help and has very little to do with my central points.

Two, there's a some lore (non-derrogatory) about IFTAS "pushing" Bad Space or equivalent via FediCheck and as far as I can tell as an earnest semi-outsider, that isn't happening? IFTAS just recommends CARIAD (https://connect.iftas.org/library/iftas-documentation/cariad-policy/) for new admins and has no working relationship with anyone in that whole schism.

CARIAD Policy - IFTAS Connect

Consensus Aggregated Retractable IFTAS Allowlist Denylist Version 1.2 May 1st, 2025 Summary CARIAD is intended to provide new service providers a basic, first step in…

IFTAS Connect
@valpackett Also! I am happy to admit that I wasn't there when the Deep Magic Was Written etc, and I don't want to express excessive certitude/ IFTAS looks to me like an org that is trying very had to keep clear of trouble and make tooling we desperately need here, so I am trying to help with that stuff. That doesn't mean I'm ready to accept collateral damage to queer/trans fedi, and I continue to talk to people about this but it does seem like there's some confusion I can't get my head around.

@valpackett Anyway—"Collateral damage" should be in quotes because I hate that whole complex. Nothing good can be built on scapegoating.

I have to get completely offline now for a bit for unexpected reasons, please forgive slow responses.

@kissane I think the link that was pointed to by ppl on here was Jaz the executive director? But yeah, I appreciate the clarification, some in the queer fedi world might be a bit too eager to jump to preemptively canceling anyone even remotely connected in any way..
@kissane I personally don’t understand how anything is considered more “ethical” when it’s fine with segregation of normies
@kissane Agreed. It's amazing how much having a well designed website can help someone install an application that they'd otherwise never consider -- Even when they have a trusted person helping them. Small things matter.
@kissane I don't see there being a "window" so to speak. The structure of the Internet is fundamentally decentralised (despite what you may hear about "Web 3.0" and its claim about it). So long as that structure exists, the fediverse remains viable. Its strategy for palatability, sustainability, and overall "approachability" may need to change, but that ties into a lot of leftist principles.
@kissane This is one of the big sources of frustration for me with how little communication and progress there is on big issues that affect Mastodon specifically (e.g. limiting replies, post migration). I want those things because I want fedi to succeed and Mastodon is one of the biggest players, but many of the "difficult" requests and suggestions have had seemingly no real progress or communication in 6+ years, so it feels like this window is being squandered https://github.com/mastodon/mastodon/issues?q=is%3Aissue%20state%3Aopen%20sort%3Areactions-%2B1-desc

@kissane Thank you for saying this, I wish more people would have this realization.

Too many people here are satisfied with not taking part of problematic socials instead of figuring out how decentralized platforms can be a solution for everyone.

@kissane 100% agree yeah, i have frequently criticized the "clubhouse" mentality https://mastodon.social/@jplebreton/113482612567456167
@kissane I’d honestly thought that window had already closed until a Bluesky dev laid out their design intent in that recent exchange about ATproto. And it’s been encouraging to see people jumping from Instagram to Pixelfed. Overall I’m a lot more hopeful than I was a few months go.
@complexmath @kissane I still check in on Facebook and was surprised to see people who never talk about politics actively asking about how to leave Facebook and where to go.
@kissane the critical thing in our personal view is to explain why and how these things matter, to teach the reasoning skills that we want to see.
@ireneista @kissane Agreed, but even that takes a willingness to learn; that is its own kind of teaching, both incredibly necessary and difficult.
@xgranade @kissane yes, absolutely agreed

@xgranade @kissane it's worth keeping in mind here that what we are really doing here is figuring out what storytelling structures will shape the next century or two (at least, if we win...)

newspapers were one answer to that; radio was a different one. both were accompanied by significant realignments of how the world worked

that is not an easy thing to do. we should not be surprised that it is hard

@xgranade @kissane that has both technological and social components to it
@xgranade @kissane we have to get the bidirectional teaching part to work, one way or another, or else we have nothing. scale will happen naturally once it actually works
@xgranade @kissane not to say there aren't windows that could close here, but we encourage thinking of it less as a popularity contest and more as a ... well, the whole thing we said

Great point. But, two things are true at once. In the short term it's also critical to have alternatives to fascist-controlled, state-aligned social networks that are signalling very strongly that they're eager to participate in atrocities.

@ireneista @xgranade @kissane

@kissane there is no other solution than digital and media literacy, just as there wasn't for reading and mathematics literacy back in the day. Or now for that matter.

@kissane i feel this struggle. ive BEGGED local friends to dump facebook. but im also the president of my HOA (i have stories. weird ones.) and monday's meeting there was one homeowner that was basically ordering the board members to 'get on the facebook group, because thats where everyone is'.

im 110% in favor of getting folks off facebook - the challenge is competing with the convenience. I'm sure this is of absolutely no surprise to you though, heh

@Viss @kissane Ooph, that felt familiar. I deleted my Facebook account a few years ago and then had to make another one for local organizing. Network effects are the worst.
@kissane A lot of my friends seem inclined to go to Bluesky. It is the new hotness, I guess. I've tried to at least raise the possibility of using the bridge.
@kissane What's worse is that they have prior art. FB's refusal to moderate was the principal reason that hatred against Rohingya was amplified and led to genocide.

@kissane @phil_stevens
Thank you for the great write-up of this. More people need to be aware of this - particularly the fact that Meta is fully aware of the part they played in the genocide even before it reached the point of no return.

The fact that they're intentionally expanding the same atmosphere of malignant neglect that led to genocide across their entire operation should *terrify* people.

@jargoggles @kissane I have this horrifying image of the same group of guys who originally were out to rate the hotness of female undergrads sitting around and saying "what if we promote ethnic cleansing in some shithole country, then sit back and watch?"

@phil_stevens @jargoggles @kissane It's the same deal with Meta's reaction to child predators trying to procure children on the platform who are being exploited.

New Mexico has a lawsuit against Meta on that problem and the details are disturbing in terms of the volume of trafficking going on, the fact that Meta knows how to filter most of it but chooses not to, and the unwillingness of Mark Zuckerberg to consider making any changes that would reduce engagement and therefore ad revenues.

@kissane I just want to turn this thread into a warm blanket and wrap everyone up in it

Spot on word for word no notes

@kissane what are the current best options for a FB alternative? The part I find most useful is local events planning, so that would be part of what I'm looking for.

Someone yesterday posted a list of Fedi places, and I looked them up, and their descriptions were all "open source end to end peer to peer encryption that facilitate communication" which tells me nothing about what it does.

@kissane the other downside is, each Fedi thing is separate, so you need to find an instance and open a separate account on each thing separately.
@mwt There's Mobilizon, which might fit your purpose, but I haven't used it myself. https://joinmobilizon.org/de/
#JoinMobilizon - Holen wir uns unsere Veranstaltungen zurück

Ein freundliches, emanzipatorisches, ethisches Werkzeug um sich zu versammeln, zu organisieren und zu mobilisieren.

@mwt @kissane yeah, local event organising is one of the things I do on FB too. Might be time to look at https://joinmobilizon.org/en/ again...
#JoinMobilizon - Let’s take back control of our events

A user-friendly, emancipatory and ethical tool for gathering, organising, and mobilizing.

@josef @mwt @kissane definitely this. I still get most event posts from there
@kissane It's the ease of use that attracts the majority of users. People who have used them for years don't want the learning curve of other platforms. Designs need to appeal to non-techies if substitutes for Twitter and Facebook are to lure people away. And they need to offer the same sort of features that the users like.
@kissane You've hit the nail on the head about why "leave the masses to their bad platforms and build a niche alternative" is not an overall good strategy. It shouldn't be difficult but I hear the "we should stay small" thing here *a lot*
@tomw @kissane I also hear some denigrating the entirety of the content and people on the big tech platforms like they want to pull the ladder on them. I want this place to be safe and welcoming both because I want that for other people, but also because it will make this a much richer environment.
@kissane I am perplexed by anyone who would think that the fediverse staying niche is a good idea.

@themizzi I agree with you 100%, but I think I understand the mentality that leads to it. Right now it feels like an exclusive, hip club of real, nice people. It’s appealing to keep it that way.

But it’s myopic, since it would mean most people stay on platforms controlled by autocrats rapidly moving to the right. That’s… quite a steep cost.

@themizzi @kissane

they don't want "the normies"

they fear an #eternalseptember

thing is, since this is federation, anyone worried about that can keep their niche communities separate and never encounter "the normies"

and, like erin said, we want "the normies" here

otherwise they get mindwiped by plutocrat agendas on centralized #socialmedia

to do that we have to make the process of getting into the #fediverse dead simple

dead. simple.

even picking a server is a step too high for many

⬆️ @kissane >> I understand, "It's good if the #fediverse stays niche," but that's a solution for a tiny number of people.

@benroyce >> they don't want "the normies"… even picking a server is a step too high for many

👍

Even the dichotomy between #techies and #normies is facile, disrespectful, and uninviting. We need everybody to feel welcome and not force them to make choices like picking a server.

Is it possible to automatically select a sensible default and allow easy migration?

@themizzi

@benroyce @themizzi @kissane @benroyce Where the "normies" (I am using this term as shorthand for "people unaware of federated social media", it's not derogatory) go, the grifters and bots follow. The fediverse is the way it is because we're made of a bunch of small servers, and blocking one that isn't properly moderated doesn't cost us much in terms of lost friends. Centralize the normies on a big server and it becomes unmoderateable. If we abstract away instance choice, those people won't be able to leave (they won't even know they can) when the instance inevitably turns toxic, and we get a repeat of the Meta situation because nobody wants to fediblock a server half their friends and family are on. In some ways, the (arguably quite mild) barrier to entry keeps the fediverse safe. Choosing a server is really not that hard. If some of us have friends that find it challenging we should be walking them through the process so they can become members of this community. But lowering every barrier to entry, flooding the fediverse with normies who don't understand fediverse culture or norms, is not a way to safely and healthily grow the fediverse. That is growth for growth's sake and it is corporate thinking, not community building.

@90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi @kissane

Utterly disagree

With an influx moderation difficulties increase, yes. So we get the resources to scale along with the challenges. It's not impossible

And like you say if a server can't keep up we wall it off, people flee, and it sinks under the weight of bots and trolls

That's fine

Your other rationale is a personal rationale not a rationale for everyone

So make your own archipelago of servers

Don't demand the whole fediverse comply with your standards

@benroyce @90sScriptKiddiw @themizzi @kissane

Those are the two opposing worldviews, aren't they? Keep it local and community-based and hope for the best re: moderation vs. try to be welcoming and deal with scaling up to deal with challenges.

I think there needs to be a strong agreed-upon code of conduct for the main federation that's not like Threads in that people aren't allowed to be called objects, or mentally ill, or otherwise bullied or ridiculed or made to feel unwelcome.