this morning I've made the choice to close 300 forum sites that have about 275k monthly active users, nearly all from the UK.

I've run forums for over 28 years, and did so to build families for those without families, to try and create a cure for social isolation and loneliness, to combat suicide, to create joy and love out of nothing but connections between people.

and it worked. it still works.

but on the 16th March 2025 I will delete the virtual servers running it all... that date is important, it's the last day before the UK Online Safety Act goes into enforcement.

I run these communities philanthropically, giving my time and money to do so, I ask nothing back, I just help build a nicer World.

but the scope of the Act is too broad, and my forums come under it... it does not matter that it's run by an individual and not a company, that it loses money every month... merely by being linked to the UK and allowing users to speak to users... it's within scope.

the penalties of non-compliance would be so devastatingly ruinous to me, that I don't see I have a choice... I must now perform a social harm to protect myself.

this is devastating.

https://www.lfgss.com/conversations/401475/

I cannot even express what these forums have achieved... the marriages, births, support for those with cancer, the love, the communities they have created.

A journalist I'm speaking to (New Scientist)...

Just FYI, Ofcom and DSIT have given me the ouroboros circular run-around. I don't think anyone is happy to be associated with this crap legislation.

I don't think they wanted the bad press just before Christmas. Almost as if it were timed to vanish in the news cycle.

Article in the Daily Telegraph already done

also I'll give credit to the Telegraph, I asked that they not gender me in any way or use any pronouns that reveal gender, and this goes against their style guide... but they did respect it, and allowed me to use preferred name.

their style guide is legal name and to Mr or Mrs or Miss people.

so well done them for being just a little progressive in this article entirely unrelated to gender

@dee this is a lovely little ray of goodness to read on new years day. I would definitely not have thought they would.
@dee I am also going to have to seriously consider shutting down makeourbook.com, which I think is also an unequivocally good and benign thing, for the same reasons as you say.

@emma oh gosh, that's a lovely site ❤️

You're in the sweet spot of allowing file uploads whilst targeting children 😱

You don't appear to have user to user discussion / messaging though, so you may be ok and able to avoid the implications of compliance with the OSA.

@dee I might end up mothballing it, all the same, to raise awareness. I hate to punish my customers. But people need an absurd example of how some bright governmental spark has managed to 😱-won't-somebody-think-of-the-CHILDREN-😱 my lovely literacy project...

see also the ridiculous home education bill, second reading 8th Jan, which conflates home education with [checks notes] parents murdering their children.

@emma that last sentence is so maddening, and yet I know from having watched a few bills go through that this is exactly the outcome.

I can't help reduce all of it to power and control... control over education, control over communication... I used to reduce politics to those who think collectively (put the balanced needs of all above the individual) vs those who think individually (their needs always come first)... but I think I was naive, it is and has always been about power, and to retain power control is needed... everything else is a distraction. It's upsetting to see politics of collectives being used to cement power in a way that itself causes harm to individuals and groups still trying to do a general good.

I likely have expressed this poorly.

@dee Expressed perfectly. Power, control... and they do it by stirring up people's deepest fears. I don't like to immediately go there, but it's exactly what *that very bad guy from the first part of the 20th century in Europe* did.
@dee Anyway, I am really sorry about your forums. 😢