@Cdespinosa I’m honestly wondering if the local queerspace Secret Santa thing would’ve been a better than participating in Christmas stuff this year

The main issue is; I’m really bad at commuting to things like actually dropping them, there my only social safety net and all the parts of my family who aren’t that bad are also coming alone too.

@Cdespinosa

I'm going to be 42 on December 28th. I have a small family I gave birth to. We are all queer, disabled, some of us trans , and chronically ill. We have no extended family or friends so it's quite bizarre seeing other people with family. I got to thinking about the family I was born into and how I was yeeted out of their lives. It is painful, I won't lie. I had to raise three children without a village. Homeschool them even, because the schools wouldnt educate them.

I wish people would adopt us for real. We want grandparents, aunts, uncles, siblings.

I need a mother.