I (finally) wrote up my thoughts on "Founder Mode" and the Brian Chesky morality tale about how he turned around Airbnb company culture.

This material has seeped into the Silicon Valley water table; it must be dealt with. Let's mine the gold nuggets out from underneath all the šŸ’©.

https://charity.wtf/2024/12/17/founder-mode-and-the-art-of-mythmaking/

ā€œFounder Modeā€ and the Art of Mythmaking

I’ve never been good at ā€œhot takesā€. Anyone who knows anything about marketing can tell you that the best time to share your opinion about something is when everyone is all worked up about it. Hot …

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@mipsytipsy It was totally worth the wait—a thoughtful screed which deserves a second read later.

@mipsytipsy about hiring great people and getting out of their way, I can relate. But.

Did you ever experience engineering managers with a pathological attitude about just dropping their ego into the room being completely unable to just let a team execute?

@dottorblaster hmmmm, i'm not sure. can you say more about this? you mean they insist on making all the technical decisions themselves, or something else? i've definitely seen egotistical EMs, but how has this manifested in your experience?

@mipsytipsy not only technical decision making, but also committing on repos that don’t have branch protection (directly on main), breaking things that were working flawlessly, just in the name of ā€œit’s better this wayā€

(And turns out it isn’t, and dude you are not an enginner lol)

I know it’s an outlier, but I wanted to know if you witnessed some cases of people deliberately getting in the way

@dottorblaster I've definitely seen EMs who don't know wtf they're doing but insist on throwing their weight around just to flex their power, yeah. Absolutely.

I don't think they were "deliberately getting in the way", at least not in their own minds, but they were definitely getting in the way without understanding the ramifications of their acts. Does that count?

@mipsytipsy it counts. Thank you. Did you also see by any chance people managing to counter this kind of actions without burning out or having to leave? Because in my experience this course of action often led to stellar people leaving or burning out and it’s really frustrating to see.

Anyway, thank you for the insights and for all the blog posts. I never had the chance to tell you, but you helped me level up my career since 2016.

@dottorblaster oh boy.... it depends.

in general, ICs can't drive culture change or correct/compensate for harmful manager behaviors without *some* level of awareness and backing from more senior levels of management.

this is a good example of why skip level relationships are SO IMPORTANT!

if you want to talk thru a particular situation, happy to chat. šŸ’• calendly.com/charitym/advice

@mipsytipsy If we at some point started to appreciate founder mode described the way Chesky did, I worried for a second. Do we need that another leadership after this, or uncoschiesness and irresponsibility win? It was the second of weakness, of course we need. Principles we are trying to use in leadership proven for centuries, investors overhype just for years. Thank you for this review!
@mipsytipsy Thank you so much for wading through this bullshit, and providing much needed sense in this space.
This is real good. "Founder talks" needs a literacy guide to separate narrative, facts, and lessons whenever these people are speaking. I can never tell if it's a lack of self reflection, or a delusion into their own "brand", or just the problem of the human mind can't be objective when the audience is acolytes. A+ would read again.
@mipsytipsy Thank you, this was an extremely interesting read. Jfc the ego and entitlement and unaccountability of that guy. So thank you for having done what I wasn't able to, and extracted the interesting parts for us, and you added so much missing wisdom with your analysis.
Thanks!

@mipsytipsy Thanks for writing this, I’ve missed it and this way it’s more entertaining :D

I so hate the A/B/C player rating, I don’t know why it’s so pervasive…US obsession with sports, maybe?

Wrote about it a while back: https://almad.blog/essays/b-players/

On B Players | Almad's Changelog

@almad oh wow, i LOVED this essay. could not agree more on all counts. thanks for the link, bookmarked!!