One thing I appreciate about Mastodon is that if I slip into a bad habit of scrolling through the feed too much in one day, I start seeing old posts that I've already seen, and then I realize that I'm doing a bad habit, and that helps me stop checking the site too often.

On other platforms they would do anything to prevent that moment of self-reflection from occurring.

@andrewrk Also helps against FOMO. You can eventually go "well now I've seen it all, let's do something else".
@andrewrk Same here. It is a blessing.
@andrewrk I’m already looking forward to scrolling down to this toot again tomorrow!
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Yes, I remember when I actually could scroll Facebook or Twitter until seeing old posts, and I hated, when they started to force me into infinite feeds.
@andrewrk that lack of doom scrolling is why I love mastodon
@andrewrk I’ve been dithering about on Bluesky and starting to indulge in that bad habit again. Following too many people. I appreciate a medium that helps me keep my online experience human scaled.
@andrewrk Same and it's so refreshing. "Oh, I'm caught up." Close app.
@andrewrk Quite true, then again, that moment gets postponed more and more each day.
@andrewrk Good in a way, but also bad as well. I find it super hard to find people to follow on Mastodon and have an engaging feed. Usually I’ll find people on social media by coming across interesting people and then looking at the list of people they follow. On Mastodon you can’t see following lists unless you’re on same server. It’s a bummer. I had to just browse Mastodon.social on iPad while logged out and then search for people to add manually on iPhone app.
@andrewrk It's what sends me back to my book or playing with the dogs. Like "Oh, I guess I'm caught up."
@andrewrk The illusion of infinity
@andrewrk Same with Friendica. I like that I can explicitly not have infinite scrolling. I can set a number of posts to see, and I stop once I hit the bottom and move on to a different category if I want to read more.

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Counter-point (from someone who uses Mastodon primarily as a source of Tech news, with other follows in Lists)

The awesome thing about Mastodon (the web UI anyway) is you can walk away from it for hours, and it'll still be exactly where you left it (unlike the other place which would auto-refresh and send you back to the top), so first thing I do in the morning is scroll down to where I was last up to, and there's no rush to get to the top - come and go, it'll still be where I left it

@andrewrk I don’t understand this. For me the newest posts on Mastodon are at the top. Initial position is at the last post that I had read. I scroll up to see newer ones. When I get to the top, I’m done. This is on the Ivory app on iPhone.
I wish there was a way to make BlueSky behave like this.
@andrewrk Cool insight. I'm brand new to the platform and can already tell it's dramatically different from the more common platforms. Thanks for sharing!
@andrewrk the other sites have a thing called infinite scrolling, and that's really bad.
@andrewrk Yeah, it's basically telling me "not time to look at Mastodon yet, come back later."
@andrewrk oh no! Was I supposed to be self reflective about that? 😬
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Yes, another thing that helps are bots that post hourly - be it photos of space, of cute animals, witty quotes or just the current time. If you come across the same bot too often, it's time to stop scrolling.
@andrewrk yeah, I am seeing this as a positive as well
@andrewrk 100% the best part of the Mastodon feed is that it eventually ends

@andrewrk Yeah that's something that only something like Mastodon can do, because Mastodon isn't a platform.

Mastodon doesn't have a financial interest in keeping people on site for as long as possible to advertise like Twitter and Threads does.

@andrewrk mastodon does that for me too. I actually enjoy Mastodon more than Bluesky. Bluesky, I was dealing with too many bots on there.
@andrewrk Can't happen on anything ad-driven, since they have an incentive to make you keep going.
@andrewrk same heree, i started to hate big social media company cause their influence our everyday lifes. world needs disperse social media for each region of the world
@andrewrk beside the effect you describe, which I appreciate as well there is another important benefit: You can find stuff again. It happens to me so often on other networks that I see something interesting, scroll by or refresh (by accident) and the post is gone forever. There is no chance to find it ever again because it is completely random what is shown to you.
@andrewrk I know I've done the "too much scrolling" thing on Instagram when I begin to see nightmarish AI videos. Raw eggs from hell morphing into alien chestbursters vomiting vegetable soup. That kind of thing. "Time for bed," I say.

@andrewrk On my desktop, I use a free Chrome extension called Social Fixer which does a lot to make Facebook less shitty. One of the settings is that it will hit "bottom" after viewing a set number of posts – making me realize that I've been scrolling too long.

(Accidentally admit that I'm still using Facebook)

@HalfHeartedFanatic you can't fix facebook, the only winning move is not to play
@andrewrk Before you criticize someones digital life, you must scroll a mile in their browser." - Native American Proverb
@HalfHeartedFanatic I simultaneously stand by what I said, and respect your choices 🙂

@andrewrk And I don't disagree with your sentiment. In invest very little time in Facebook – but I do work in digital marketing (for good). The Social Fixer plugin basically thwarts the FB business model (somewhat) by sorting posts chronologically (defeating the "top posts" algorithm) and by hiding sponsored posts, games, and other enshittification artifacts I don't care to see.

BTW: My Mstdn instance (mas.to) blocks Threads accounts, and I'm totally fine with that.

@andrewrk I read all of (my) Mastodon feed once a day. I post randomly, but only read notifications when not in that window.
Maybe that explains why my wife can never find a post she previously read on Facebook.
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I wish there was a "Mark all read" so I can tell when I've caught up.
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