natei hate "men bad women good" because it also affects children too, what if they transition later? like me? i had to deconstruct so much gender essentialism bullshit just to start taking testosterone and not feel guilty of just being a man instead of a nonbinary-only creature.
WaitingToCompile@nate also just more generally, it gestures towards the line of thinking that men are ontological evil, rather than the patterns of awful behaviour from men being a learned behaviour picked up from a deeply misogynistic society, and that in turn leads towards a lot of very essentialist ideas about gender. Terfs, political lesbians/lesbian separatism, and so on tend to be built on the idea that mysoginy is actually irreconcilable and innate.
@WaitingToCompile I don't believe misogyny is innate but rather learned, and the moment we stop it from happening we will finally have some sort of peace. It's hard and going to take decades and maybe one more century, I have hope about it being successful at some point.