CheesyCheese1 [She/her]Do your best to help them out
TwitchesI’ve seen you post this 3 times now and each one has about 15/16 down votes. Either you can’t see down votes or your trying to rile people up.
I’m so glad this bozo is already being booted from other communities for disrespecting people and general troll behavior. Can’t wait to see their sock puppet army go full crazy with made up victimhood.
apfelwoiSchoppenBoot this asshole from this community, please.
Yeah that’s right ban the stupid tranny because you don’t agree with her. This is why Lemmy has no future, they let transphobes and pickmes run wild here.
Why do you think No True Scotsman is the answer here?
Why not be inclusive?
I don’t get it, I’m cishet, just like you are trans. That’s the way the world works, you do you, I do me, someone else does their own thing.
Maybe I’m missing some nuance, but seems simple to me.
You argue with everyone here who is disagreeing though? Who is being less tolerant here really?
Femboy and Trans are two distinct things, you need to listen to the person when they tell you how they identify, not pressure them into being something else.
A person who dresses feminine clearly does it because it brings them gender euphoria, cis people don’t get gender euphoria from presenting as the opposite gender, so therefore it is more than likely that they are trans.
Femboys are empirical evidence to the contrary
Just because they haven’t realized they are trans yet doesn’t mean they aren’t.
PerogiBoiSome people like cross dressing and still feel comfortable in their gender assigned at birth. Open ur mind please.
Just because you think you know better than them who they are, doesn’t mean you’re right.
RubberElectronsNot my business to artificially accelerate someone’s path through life.
We are all masters of our own destiny, I suggest you grow up and acknowledge other people’s humanity.
Denial of trans is a big issue though because dysphoria kills, and when you’re in denial you may not even know that you’re trans, so you just think life sucks. It’s about saving lives because these people would very likely kill themselves otherwise.
Unfortunately no, that again sounds like steering a very intimate part of someone else’s life.
It’s more prudent and tactful to be a good friend who listens, and the two of you go out to have fun whether it’s hiking or checking out a restaurant, or what have you.
If they seem unhappy about something, talk with them, be a good friend. But don’t go digging into someone else’s life, preloaded with suggestions, that’s not organic, and a poor-quality friendship.
Shit like this gives the far rights reason to hate on LGBT.
Let kids discover their sexuality themselves; do not assert anything.
ShaunaTheDeadLooks like you all have a good handle on this, but just chiming in as another transgender person to say FUCK NO! to this post. Femboys are not transgender unless they choose to be, stop forcing labels on people who don't want them. You don't know better than them what they are, how they feel, or what they want.