This photo was sent my way by someone who knows I work in #food security. I don’t know where it was taken or who deserves credit. (The tickets appear to name a pub).

But I’d sure love to see this kindness replicated. Widely. It’s critically needed & warms my heart. ❤️

@Sheril I’ve heard of this and it’s so direct I love it.

@Sheril I don’t get it.

I’m thinking all those would have had way more effect going to a food bank. Or taxes, in the case of a sane gov.

Here we see a restaurant profiting off the charity of people, on top of some of those meals likely never getting used up at all.

@kfet @Sheril poor people deserve hot food, too, and this treats people with the dignity that our policies deny them. Food bank food usually needs some kind of prep, and food stamps (taxes) can’t be used for hot food. Both are also bureaucratic quagmires and stigmatizing.

@alec @Sheril What do you mean food banks are not providing hot food, the kitchens they supply absolutely do. And each one of those bills would feed 10 times the people.

I definitely did not mean food stamps, or even anything related in the US, hence the “sane gov” qualification of the taxes. US is like the worst in that in my mind.

@alec @Sheril I guess the devil is in the details. I assume normal restaurant rates (and added taxes and such), but can’t really make it out on the pics. I might be wrong.
@kfet a public establishment welcoming and encouraging support of hungry people is a radical act in a society that would rather hide such folks from view using food banks and government quagmires.

@alec Who said it’s radical? It just isn’t a very good way to give food to the hungry.

It might be good for other reasons - which comes down to being able to sit in a pub basically.

@kfet *I* said it was radical. The “other reasons” is exactly what I’m talking about, why a board like this is a good thing to do.
@kfet
Not everyone has access to transportation to get to the few places that do serve hot food. You are making generalizations and not "anything related to the US" and shitting on people for helping each other.
@alec @Sheril

@matrix9180 @alec @Sheril I am not “shitting” on anyone. Asking questions should never be shamed.

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@kfet @alec @Sheril

Some things are just what they are. This is a gift to people who are without food, are, right now, not ever eating with dignity. It isnt a way to solve billionaires stealing wages, it doesnt solve bribed politicians giving away tax gifts to rich corporations, it doesnt end poverty.

Its just a bit of dignity for a dinner or lunch.

People deserving dignity, afforded dignity, is a powerful society-changing understanding.

Also you are not wrong. Rights shouldnt be gifts.

@kevinrns

Bingo! You are exactly correct.

Yes, the restaurant tab could buy more food at a soup kitchen. But humans deserve a chance for a few moments of just relaxing, taking a deep breath, enjoying the moment. These $$ are serving a different, and special purpose.

@kfet @alec @Sheril

@dbc3 @kfet @alec @Sheril

There are many ways of saying you deserve dignity, there is no reason to wait for a utopia to treat someone with dignity.

@kevinrns @dbc3 @alec @Sheril That’s a very low bar for “utopia” you are setting, everyone to have access to food without stigma.

I think we have very different understanding of what a sane society is.

@alec There is seemingly no end to the potential for cruelty from the human animal. At the same time, there is a strong drive to help. Unfortunately, America is only configured to favor one group, and it’s not the one we’d prefer.
@alec @kfet @Sheril
There should be no country in the world where people are that poor, that they need to go to food banks or let other people pay their meal.
#TaxTheRich
@kfet @Sheril Charity/giving need not be “perfect”. It’s the act of caring about others in need. It’s giving someone who is struggling a moment in time to breathe a little easier- to have a tiny bit of joy in their lives. You have lost the plot when all that matters is picking apart its cost effectiveness, who might be paid for their services, and thinking that simply paying taxes is a viable alternative.
@notthatkaren @Sheril Paying taxes is the best solution *in a sane society*. Don’t project. NOBODY goes hungry in Norway. Looking for the core of the problem is not “loosing the plot”, it is the *only* way to have a lasting solution.
@Sheril @notthatkaren @kfet But until we can convince them to raise our taxes and build systemic solutions, why can’t we celebrate stop-gap measures like this that might help some people in the meantime?

@kfet @notthatkaren @Sheril

World Bank data suggests a higher rate of severe food insecurity in Norway than in the US (but that’s deeply suspicious…)

https://data.worldbank.org/indicator/SN.ITK.SVFI.ZS?locations=NO-US

Also, “paying taxes” implies some pretty huge assumptions about the existence (and necessity) of a bureaucratic state.

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@scottmatter @notthatkaren @Sheril No, it does not imply increased bureaucracy.

We all already pay taxes, as everybody should.

Personally I'm a firm believer in #UBI, which shows in all studies time and time again it results in people getting lifted out of poverty.

It is an example of taxes being distributed in the most simple way possible - *everybody gets it, period*. It quite literally would require significantly less bureaucracy, compared to dealing with food stamps for example.

@kfet @notthatkaren @Sheril

If you re-read my post, you’ll see I did not mention “increased” bureaucracy.

The claim that taxes are the best way, or that everyone should pay taxes, is fine if the only world we can imagine is one of bureaucratic states.

What if we dare to imagine beyond that narrow paradigm?

@notthatkaren @kfet @Sheril I volunteer at a food pantry and am proud of the high quality food that we are able to provide for our clients. The fresh produce, meat, and dry and canned goods are tasty and nutritious, but it's really special when we have bakery items. People just light up when we're able to give them fresh pastries, cookies, cake, so happy to have a small treat. Everyone deserves a bit of joy.♥️

@kfet
Though this particular establishment is said to have been dodgy AF, the concept of pay it forward in food places is generally good. Food banks can be pretty rubbish, and humiliating and otherwise difficult to access. Not all people in food poverty have the facilities, time and energy to cook. An affordable or free healthy cooked meal can be so so welcome. Especially if given discretely and without judgement.

One of our local eating establishments does this really well.

@Sheril

@RedRobyn @Sheril I think I found a more detailed report on the place where the pic is from:
https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/ottawa/restaurants-meal-donations-ottawa-valley-1.7031660

Interesting point being that the owner used to foot the pay-it-forward bill, at least in the beginning.

They seem to have emphasized the aspect of socializing at the pub, not just feeding the hungry (unlike a food bank).

Looks like it’s permanently closed now.

Pay-it-forward meal donations catch on in Ottawa Valley restaurants | CBC News

A new pay-it-forward initiative is catching on at restaurants across the Ottawa Valley, with patrons buying meals for those who otherwise couldn't afford them.

CBC

@kfet @Sheril are you for real?

Yes, something could ALWAYS be done better. You could have, for example, done literally anything except write that post and it would have been an improvement. (The same is true for me, of course.)

But to look at an act of kindness and humanity and harrumph it? That's special.

@kfet @Sheril Yeah, this pay-it-foreward idealism depresses me. I don't disparage people doing things like this, but I just can't enjoy it because of what it represents: an absolute flawed fucking system that good people are struggling to correct and not succeeding. In a word: yay?

@Sheril Context matters, and this seems to have been just a way for the pub owner to show some kindness.

https://fosstodon.org/@kfet/112352226098544912

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@[email protected] @[email protected] I think I found a more detailed report on the place where the pic is from: https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/ottawa/restaurants-meal-donations-ottawa-valley-1.7031660 Interesting point being that the owner used to foot the pay-it-forward bill, at least in the beginning. They seem to have emphasized the aspect of socializing at the pub, not just feeding the hungry (unlike a food bank). Looks like it’s permanently closed now.

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@Sheril it is, they are even doing it in some café in Needham Market (a relatively small town surrounded by rural areas in Mid Suffolk, which makes sense as its even more easy for those without money to become isolated in this semi rural area compared to a bigger town such as Ipswich)

@Sheril Comments are not encouraging at all, suggesting this was a cheap publicity stunt. https://www.reddit.com/r/ontario/comments/1b9wckj/nelson_street_pub_in_pembroke/

The place appears to be closed down now.

@Sheril maybe at the Nelson Street Pub in Pembroke, Ontario, Canada. 29 November 2023. By then the idea was catching on elsewhere, BUT the pub owner is quoted saying "he came up with the idea after he saw an American restaurant post about a similar initiative on social media."

https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/ottawa/restaurants-meal-donations-ottawa-valley-1.7031660

Pay-it-forward meal donations catch on in Ottawa Valley restaurants | CBC News

A new pay-it-forward initiative is catching on at restaurants across the Ottawa Valley, with patrons buying meals for those who otherwise couldn't afford them.

CBC
@Sheril I've seen this one almost 10 years ago somewhere else...
@Sheril One of my local-owned mom and pop pizza places implemented something like this in the last year or so. The owners have huge hearts and take care of people when they know there is a need.
@Sheril 几年前,我所在的城市也有几家这样做的小餐馆,方式相似:提醒拮据者告诉服务员“来套A餐”即可。
当然,嘟文中图片所展示的“安排”,显然更为细心体贴。
哦,也有清真餐厅参加了这种善举。
@Sheril There was a pizza place near me that did a similar thing once upon a time but they did it using a whiteboard. When you go in to order a slice, you can pay to add to the total and the person behind the counter said that anybody can come in and order a free slice, deducting from the total.
@Sheril the nicest thing I’ve seen all week. ❤️
Suspended meal - Wikipedia

@Sheril

Check out Bon Jovi's Soul Kitchen. (Yes, that Bon Jovi.) It's a casual sit-down restaurant. Anyone can come, be seated at a table, order whatever they want off the menu, and be treated like any other customer. If you can pay for the meal, great. If you can't, you can pay for it by helping out in the kitchen or waiting tables for a while. It's a non-profit. Four locations and growing.

https://jbjsoulkitchen.org/

@WearsHats @Sheril that's a nice idea, but excludes disabled people who can't do those things. If you're Bon Jovi you can afford to just give people food.
@RubyJones @Sheril As a disabled person myself, I'm aware. The place accepts donations to pay for those who can't, and they work with people within their abilities. Bon Jovi can afford to pay for some meals, but this setup has a broader reach than that, while creating a welcoming community space. Setting up and maintaining a restaurant isn't cheap (I know; I tried it) and this not only succeeded it's been able to expand. Serving people every day.
@Sheril pretty weel done. remainds me of the so-called "suspended coffee" in Napoli, where someone some times pays one coffee more at the bar to let anyone who may need it to drink later.
@Sheril That is such a wonderful thing to do 
Whoever organised that is a beautiful soul.
@Sheril we need more kindness like this
@Sheril There's at least two places in Auckland running a similar scheme. A cafe on K Road and an Indian restaurant in Sandringham shops. Probably more I've never noticed

@Sheril On the off-chance that anyone nearby sees this post, the cafe at the Inspire Centre in Levenshulme in Manchester runs a scheme just like this.

#Manchester

@Sheril Shout out to Humble House in Golden, CO that does the same thing. If you browse the slips there you'll see people "paying it forward" for a wide variety of reasons: people who are hungry, people who are struggling with cancer, runaways who are alone, people who are lonely.

A small gesture of kindness from a stranger can have a profound effect on a person. I hope everyone is lucky enough to experience that.

The intent is beautiful and thats all that matters. Humans over complicate things and we shift our focus from what is important, which is to freely give ourselves what we can and when we can. Thank you for sharing!