did you know: not only i am good at programming language design, but i also have big tits
@dmbaturin @denchikmed the restraint is (very sincerely) admirable. a lot of people don't and it is, Bad
i actually slightly prefer being desired physically to being desired as an engineer (for cursed burnout reasons) but i'm also a lesbian so it only works with like, women
@whitequark @denchikmed Ok, if we meet in person and I start physically desiring you, I will do it silently without telling you (since I'm a man).
But you got me thinking: I probably don't actually want to be desired physically. I like to look at people I find attractive but my relationship with physical contact is very complicated — I'd most likely refrain from it even if they offered (they don't because I'm f-ugly).